This week in Savage Love: Full-throatedI’m a middle-aged gay man and I was recently diagnosed with sleep apnea. This is a disorder caused by the soft…
This week in Savage Love: Thrown bonesI’m 20, straight, male, fit, and active. I masturbated prone—flat on my stomach—for years. I’ve now changed to a…
This week in Savage Love: Rain checksI’m a 33-year-old woman in a relationship with a 43-year-old man. My boyfriend’s fantasy is to have a threesome with…
Savage Love: QuickiesI have a question about porn, and I can’t think who else I can ask that will give me an intelligent, educated…
This week in Savage Love: Bottoming outI’m a 29-year-old gay man living in California. Why are most tops such assholes? I have had plenty of sexual…
This week in Savage Love: Open endedI’m a mid-20s cis straight man. After my girlfriend and I finished college, she moved overseas to start her job.…
This week in Savage Love: Bloody businessI am a 60-year-old heterosexual man, and I am being told that I’m normal. I have been to several urologists, and…
This week in Savage Love: Kink monstersMy husband and I (straight male/bi female couple) have been married 15 years. We are in our early 40s. When we met,…
This week in Savage Love: Sissy that talkMy boyfriend and I met online to explore our kinks. We’d both been in relationships with kink-shaming people who…