Whoops, thought this was going to be about our current obsession with public shaming. Would have probably been more controversial, sure but there's no doubt it's become a kind of past time for those on the left. Entire tumblr blogs devoted to it, Jezebel does it at least once a week. I'm on the fence about whether or…

So basically what you are saying is that we shouldn't shame Jezebel for the Hugo Schwyzer thing/ #SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen.

I thought this was going to be about the trend of shaming people as punishment. Which I would love to be a thing of the past.

You would be surprised at how fun it really can be. If you tend to be a shy person in the bedroom, like myself, you can really get into fantasy and really open up. That's not to put down the connection I have with the BF. However, some things that started off in sexting between us have become fun sexy times for us.

Not every one uses pics or videos. That's why written erotica is such a huge, varied, long standing porno outlet.

Um, yes. Those of us who are thousands of miles away from our lovers 90% of the time really enjoy sexting. Or, you know, at least thewickedboyfriend and I do.

I'm white and I want to tag this shit #SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen

Ani DiFranco's non-apology is one of the shittiest I've read in a LONG time - she's like the poster-child for terrible white feminism. Her basic point can be boiled down to "black feminists complained in a way that made me uncomfortable and that's not ok, and terrible things happened everywhere so I can't be expected…

Holy shit. That statement is careening towards Embarrassing Uncle territory. I kept expecting her to say that come on, EVERY race has been slaves at SOME point in history.

Can Phil Robertson cut that stupid beard and go back to playing golf in his polo shirts and kakis like he did before the show? Now that he has made a bloody fortune hamming it up as a fake backwoods redneck, maybe he wants to stop pretending he lives in a shack and eats squirrels. He can just retreat to the…

Bub's a girl, just FYI

Can I just say a preemptive FUCK YOU to all the trolls and their insensitive comments about women's vaginas.

That they are being violated physically practically on the daily and you can comment about is stupid band names, really??

Let's clarify a few things! I'm actually pretty much obsessed with etiquette and politeness. That's why I said "sorry," before I even asked the guy to move. I didn't touch him or get in his space in any way when I reached up to put my bag in the bin. I didn't "lean over him." In fact, I put my bag in the bin behind…

You'd really call standing next to someone so that you can put your bag in the over head bin, violating someone's space??

This goes without saying, but don't read the comments on the Gawker version.

Sex is fun. Seeing our folks is stressful. Having something fun to do makes the stressy parts suck less. Ta da, logic.

"Mothers always get custody" is a common MRA talking point, but if you look at the data about cases where fathers actually seek custody, the numbers are pretty equal. I'm willing to bet the fathers are perfectly happy with their level of access.

Yeah, why can't the President pardon some white-knight douche who has neither been charged with nor convicted with anything? Rabble rabble!

Where is Kanye when we need him?