“out of context”

Probably everyone has said some dumb/offensive/problematic shit in the last decade. No one is perfect. But if someone calls you (general you, not you specifically) out on saying something problematic, even if it’s something you said a while ago, you should stop and reflect. And own up to what you said and apologize,…

THANK YOU

He’s an equal opportunity hater; I’ve been banned several times (hence now another Burner) for mentioning his intense bordering on the insane/obsessive hatred of German and German culture, which he introduces even into unrelated posts and topics. (Not had my comments dismissed, banned.)

It's gone now. Disappeared a few short hours after people started talking about it. Maybe it was a coincidence.

Damn. That bitter-sweet vindication when that person you think you irrationally hate has been proven to be hateful...Where do I find this Livejournal?

Always trust your instincts

I have never really cared for C.A. Pinkham, always thought they were kind of an asshole. Are you telling me my instinct was right and they’re a racist asshole?

If she still has the link, she could publicize it if she wished. Direct links can get past the normal dismiss filter. Just a consideration if it becomes necessary.

He does in last post he was calling people idiots for disagreeing with him about the honeymoon fund. I have also seen him end up deleting most threads because they disagree with what he wrote about a culture he has no idea about, he then goes on to insult that culture and the Country and bans the person.

I’m confused why people are surprised. I like reading kitchenette, but guy’s a real dick. He’s super immature and insults you if you disagree with anything he writes.

"Some of these are over 10 years old"

Not really, since there’s evidence of him abusing PoC semi recently (which was a surprise to me because we were friends.)

Live journal is ten years old. Tumblr is 4. He’s also been aggressive and abusive and dismissive and racist towards WOC on groupthink much more recently.

No i have never said anything close to what he said, yes i have said something dumb but i never have spoken about how awful “ghetto Spanish” and other racist things. Also some of them are from 2009 + and i don’t believe he has changed and don’t believe any of those posts are “out of context”.

He is and i know that a few members on here clashed with him because they thought he was a bit racist (i wont post them without their permission). His replies were very aggressive about how they are waste of space and oxygen and how sick they make him and how dare they say he is racist, now it has come out he is a…

The fact he deleted them and so promptly is the icing on the cake. He knows he's waaay in the wrong and he could have easily squashed the whole thing with a simple post "hey guys I used to be a bigot and sexist but that's not me anymore, I've done some growing since then." But instead he just pulls a scorched earth…

I’m just replying to make sure this stays at the top. And a bunch of us want to marry you.

He apparently thinks Spanish is a ghetto language and was very creepy/sexist/creepy/creepy toward female staff at the restaurants he used to work at (among other things). Which begs the question, I wonder how he feels about the staff at jezebel?

See my reply to Ellen, someone basically found his old Live Journal and he posted a lot of offensive things. Instead of apologizing he deleted but luckily someone screen capped it.