Horrible is forcing a woman to be an unwilling incubator. A man can have as many children as he wants, provided he can conceive, carry and birth them himself. A woman's body and everything contained therein are hers.

Yes, I completely agree. I probably wouldn't feel so grumpy about PIV if it was presented as one of many different sexual activities one can engage in. But it's not. It's held up as the PINNACLE of sex. IT IS SEX, in fact. Everything else is mere "foreplay" or perversion, which is a really shitty way of framing…

I had this conversation with a black male after he said that Sterling's sexual interest in this woman meant that he wasn't repulsed by black women (ridiculous). Without really addressing that (since years of plantation owners sexual aggression with slave women while hating them should be proof enough) I told him that…

B/c admitting this is about racism makes it not about WW, and I feel as if there is a strong need to try to re-center conversations about the experiences of WOC and make them about WW. Just like the ppl who want to say it's "class not race", we have a lot of ppl who want to say "it's gender not race" when it's…

I think you're correct, that's what Sterling is doing.

No way, dat mistress knows wut shes a talkin! I know when I done gots me a white woman, I wus like OOOO EEEEE, papa gonna dance de Charleston an den show Trevor dat I gots me one o his white women sos I can dom-in-ate dem cuz dats what all men be like!

No no no, racism doesn't exist. He only criticized her for taking pictures with black people, and has a history of discriminating against non-white renters of his property, a practice that has nothing to do with his mistress. But please, that's all about sexism, somehow—oh, and all men do it too.

Why exactly do you need to convince people that he is not "as racist" as he is other things? Obviously, people can be many kinds of asshole at once. You can have a personality disorder and be a racist/sexist/ misogynist.

honey you can only speak for yourself. i'm nearly on the street and writing my ass off to make bills and being black i wouldn't fucking fuck him. understand, not every sista has a price. not one with a soul (and self-respect) anyway. btw, i do have a brother on the street and he ain't robbing folk, so even he doesn't…

You know whats worse than being called a racist....dealing with racism and feeling like you can't comment racist behavior for fear being called irrational and hyperbolic.

A case to prove your too-fucking-true point: My roommate and I are best friends - he is white and I am black. On occasion I'll find myself being forced into the company of his mother's grotesque boyfriend, an old-school racist. Around me, however, he is always all smiles. This past weekend, I attended a wedding at…

Yes, because her features has to be plastic and not her own.

Add children to this mix, too. Having biracial children Does NOT give you a "get out of racism" card. Trust.

This is a huge reason why I'm wary of dating white men because this " I fuck black people therefore anything I say or do is above reproach" mentality is extremely prevalent.

My first college roommate was ridiculously (and gleefully) racist despite her insistence that she wasn't. I cringe every time I think of how she probably uses the "I know/have associated with a black person so I cant be racist" line and its probably in reference to me.

I don't even know how to respond to what's in the gray up there. You're just gonna take some fancy shit off of some old asshole? No thanks. This sister is doing it for herself.

It just defies all logic, physics, and decency. Blech.

To those who think they cannot be racist on the basis of having a racist friend, I challenge you to present evidence that every "friendship" is based on mutual respect and admiration.

You know, I hate to resort to body snarking/shaming but I don't think I've seen a more repulsive man in a long time. And, consider that I have recently seen a photo of Bill O'Reilly (although, admittedly, it's been a while since I've seen a pic of Rush Limbaugh).

Not for all the fucking money in the world. Seriously, girlfriend?