"The content of this email was offensive and it should never have been written."
Nothing would've happened if I hadn't been caught. I would've never written them if I knew I would've gotten caught.

"As hard as it may be to believe, it was written as a joke for a small audience that understood the context and that it…

"And twisting people's [rape-promoting frat bros] words IS helping? Deliberately adding to hysteria, panic, and/or misinformation, that's helping?"

"One thing I didn't see in this article is how it supports you taking what this guy says and literally flipping it around so that it means something else entirely."

1 in 4 women in college are sexually assaulted.
There is an epidemic of rape in the military.
You're not helping.
You are part of the problem.

Oh god, you're one of those. Nevermind.

"Please. We all objectify the sex we're attracted too [sic]. Women are no better than men..."

You did not contribute anything to the concept of sexual objectification.
Switching men out with women in hypothetical situations elucidates nothing.
It's false equivalence because it's not the same thing. Ever heard of…

If you could take some time to read this, I think you would find some really interesting and useful information:

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/03/enthus…

You're being willfully ignorant. What the frat bros are encouraging is not what you and your consenting wife do, which is talk about your sexual desires and fantasies. You know this.

Switching men and women out in hypothetical examples is false equivalence.
It's not the same thing because of historical context.

Nice trying taking a single sentence out of context and trying to make an argument out of it.
Conveniently you've ignored the part of the advice that say "IF ANYTHING FAILS, GO GET MORE ALCOHOL."
Impairing someone's ability to withhold consent is fucked up.
You are trying way to hard to rationalize predatory behavior…

Right, because treating people with respect, kindness, and empathy won't get you "anywhere in a relationship." Valuing women's humanity and appreciating their individuality has no appeal for you.

Like I said before, please seek professional help.

now he just has to work on his communication (people) skills and to learn how to practice being an ally through listening!

I'm telling you men are socialized, as evidenced by the e-mail from the frat bros. were sending out, to not see that "INTEREST IS NOT THE SAME FUCKING THING AS CONSENT." But you were busy BUT BODY LANGUAGE.

"whiny post"
"massive circle jerk"
"patting each other on the back"
real empathetic there, science bro; really…

the hair flip thing is a reliable indicator of interest? cite the study, science bro.
i mean, who cares that the women on this website have stated that it doesn't signify anything - you're a man, and you know better! there are studies, dammit! studies! isn't this article about men encouraging rape? do you have…

Hi, my username is airwave and on articles about rape and rape culture, I like to remind people about the scientific evidence regarding body language (because people do give off signals, you know? it's a science that I like to talk about..so maybe she really was asking for it without even knowing it?) Science. I'm…

Nice rebuttal. Go back to making up hypothetical situations where you switch women out with men because it's exactly the same thing and not false equivalence at all...NOT.

You probably do need to write a 30 page essay on why rape is bad because I don't think you actually believe that it is, based on what you've…

1 in 4 women in college are sexually assaulted.
Whatever myths we're teaching boys in our society about how to interact with women, how to talk to women, how to have discussions about sex - we're doing it wrong.
You're so hung up on this body language bs that your first comment in an article about college men…

"Hate to break it to you there kiddo, but that is the objective of all heterosexual men who are drinking at a college party. (A real college party, not one of those apartment parties where everyone brought there own bottle, which I'm sure is the type that most of you attended at school)"

Your definition and…

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Thank you for confirming what I said about you.

There are a lot of dumbasses.
Consider this: 1 out of 4 women in college will be victims of sexual assault.

Body language is a real thing, sure. But it's used (as evidenced in the pro-rape e-mail) to encourage men to think that is replaces consent. And that's not okay.

So when you just made one comment in the…

All the above is possible by reading "signals" that you're encouraging as science!

Yes, you brought up the hair thing, but based on all your other posts and that it was the first comment you made about this troubling article, you make it easy for people to see you as a rape apologist.

You said:
"there is a huuuuuge…