seems to imply that all men are capable of killing a woman in the event of rejection.

If you’re serious, check out the White Ribbon campaign. They have a lot of resources and suggestions for men and boys who want to be part of the solution.

A good start would be when you hear someone try to explain their fears, you don’t whimper about how that’s an unfair generalization.

Dude just stop. Only a whiny little boy can’t face the cold hard truth of our gender- we have a large, long, and statistically verified history of violence against women we’re attracted to. Women don’t. It’s us. Our problem. Sitting here thinking the stupid things you do is cowardly. A grown adult acknowledges the…

Confession time: I had a labiaplasty when I was 18 years old. I grew up in the sexually repressed south where it was taboo to talk about your lady bits, so I didn’t know that labia came in all different shapes, sizes, colors, etc. I thought my labia minora were “too long”, and it made me incredibly self conscious. My…

I think we just need to remember that it does come from a place of standards set for female beauty that are unattainable or completely ridiculous. It’s possible to be supportive of these women and also question what we can do to build a society where fewer and fewer people will feel so bad as to resort to surgery.

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Disgusting person to call that a ‘problem’, many women have this naturally. Its called variation. As if we need another part of our bodies which don’t conform to worry about.

See this is where I tend to feel uncomfortable judging women who get this surgery.

I know it’s a mostly result of societal pressure to look a certain way, for goddamn yoga pants of all things.

But if someone feels so intensely horrible about their body, to the point where they’d consider surgery...I have a hard time…

The problem that you most likely have is that your labia minora (inner lips) is protruding past your labia majora (outer lips).

I know, it’s so tricky, isn’t it?

lol right

Stating "You have the labia of a 21 year old" is not a good pickup line

I'm also calling bullshit. For as long as I've been aware I've had genitals, my minora has tried to steal the spotlight from the majora. THERE ARE NO BIT PARTS WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR BITS

giving a more youthful look

There is context: if a guy makes a sexist joke while being known for actually being respectful of women otherwise, that could possibly get a pass.

Yeah I imagine all the young women being dropped off at school for the first time are really finding it funny rather than actually thinking they’re being dropped off in the middle of Rape Town. Creating a hostile environment for women trying to get an education sure is hilarious! Why don’t they lighten up?

Ohhhh, they’re meant to be jokes. Thanks for clearing that up, I was so confused.

Women hear that all the time. It’s us! We just don’t get the joke. We are too offended. Blah, blah, blah.

For REAL. Thanks for letting girls know ahead of time that you don’t know how to work a girl!

If Tony’s letter ran along the lines of ‘Hey, I’m finding going into middle age hard and I kinda worry about feeling irrelevant or ignored or no longer part of a world I previously understood’, I’d feel a lot more sympathy for him because I am told that the aging process is/can be fucking rough and it’s hard to…