That is actually the best observation I have seen about the author calling herself fat. It is harmful to say to people that are not. Sometimes that is what causes young girls to have eating disorders.

Body dysmorphia sucks, but insisting to other people that you’re fat when you’re not actively harms people who are actually fat. This is Rachel Dolezal-level shit, and it needs to stop.

I should probably admit right now that I am fat myself. I’m barely 5′1″ and 135 pounds and wear a size 6 and a 34DD

As this author thinks of herself as “fat” when she is clearly not (those measurements read to me more like curvy — not skinny but certainly not fat by normal standards, maybe just 5 pounds or so above ideal BMI, for what that’s worth), then I wonder if some of the “fat” folks she fucks aren’t actually fat in the true…

Maybe it’s because I am 5’0” 195lbs... but I have been 5’0” and 135lbs (Not to mention DD boobs) and in no way can I possibly consider that anywhere in the realm of “fat.” To me that is super in shape. I don’t have a problem with fat, but I just don’t think any reasonable person would consider a 5’1” 135lb woman or a…