I agree Sue - self care is a lot about learning to say “no” to things in order to make time for yourself. Easier said than done, of course, since we’re always afraid of getting in trouble or offending others.

I find that when haters pop up, it’s actually a good sign strangely enough. It means you’re doing enough good work to get noticed by people (which will inevitably attract those haters).

I use a big bamboo steamer to store the smaller steamers, like a set of matryoshka dolls. Maybe the smallest one inside can then be used to hold onions and garlic?