Statements like “no couple should have more than two children” are pretty damn prescriptive, so don’t be surprised when people accuse you of telling other people what to do. You may not be making any laws, but you are engaging in some social policing here. And just because you ascribe to an apocalyptic vision of the…

Two is not a universal rule that works for everyone. Some have none, some have a lot. It works out. I’m one of seven and never once did I think my mom was irresponsible and ruining the planet. I think it is amazing that she pulled it off, and admire anyone who dedicates their time to taking care of other people,…