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I think this guy is just a mega-asshole. Sure there are men like this but none so unapologetic about it. It reminds me of a conversation I had with a dude who said he was a feminist. He was talking about how he had dated Republican women even though he was really liberal because he just wanted to have sex with them. I

It has nothing to do with her questions. I mean, yes, her questions were critical of him but so were others asked by male moderators. I think this is what happens for Trump when attractive women ask him questions:

“We’re just friends. I don’t have any feelings for her.”

I understand your concerns since white feminists have a terrible record of dismissing the issues of people of color with black men being one of the main groups not taken into account in these discussions. But I don’t see how talking about domestic violence, in a general conversation about violence against women, which

Yeah, same. I immediately thought “Oh my god I can envision it on his body right now and I can smell his musk and it’s making me so horny.” Yes I would buy that.

True, those men certainly exist. :(

I’m dating a gentleman who is broad shouldered but a bit shorter so not like this dude at all, and let me say, that makes his already very large penis look much larger. Frankly, I’m scared each time we have sex. Though I’ll say this - men with large penises understand the importance of foreplay and for that I am

“(also, we’re still strongly in the era of “Are you anything other than a white lady? Well, then your goal is to look more white, k thx.”), if red lipstick was in, well, then red lipstick was in and doggone it you are going to wear that stupid red lipstick.”

Exactly, and some people would have been like “Oh, just in case the thing I want isn’t at the store I can go to browse for other stuff and see if it’s there? Nice” because we also didn’t have the variety of online stores to buy this stuff that we have now, though I can’t speak to exactly what things were like shopping

Yeah, as you can imagine, Trump has a long history of harassing journalists. This does not surprise me at all. As I recall from a story published last year, so did Cosby. And how I am totally unsurprised by this? I mean I didn’t want this is to be true. I just hoped he was an asshole but not a rapist but I’m not

Thanks! :) I really don’t know why it’s so hard to recommend on Jez lately. I’ve had to do three tries just to recommend because you have to click just so. Get on that, Gawker Media!

Exactly.

I wasn’t saying anyone assumed he was innocent in particular. I said our society assume white men are usually innocent and generally good people unless they prove otherwise, while other groups besides white women, generally speaking, tend to be automatically suspicious and even then, even if white men do something

Thanks. :) It’s funny because he was actually much more feminist than most of my friends’ dads in that he shared chores, took me to school, etc. But maybe that’s why it created a backlash in him. I don’t want to think this, because I hate it when people say “after I had a daughter,” because after all he had a wife who

Yeah, I’m not arguing with that. Most of the time I said white men but toward the end I said “men.”

Ugh, I’m sorry. That’s so awful. A male friend in high school hated it too, and yeah it was the aughts so everyone was watching it. My friend and I were going to watch an episode but he said he hated how the women were judging men’s sexual performance and it made him uncomfortable. A couple years later I remember him

:( I’m sorry. Here’s a puppy gif.

Thank you. I DO want to hear about the victims but I don’t want to gloss over the motivations of these people. A story on the victims: http://www.cnn.com/2015/07/24/us/…

I kept waiting for this. I kept waiting to hear why a man his age would go to see Trainwreck alone if there were “no motivation” as police were saying earlier. I kept waiting to hear about the misogyny and racism because I knew it was just a matter of time. These guys never just kill a bunch of random people and

Did I see Julianne Moore or is my eyesight terrible? Because if so, that’s reason enough for me to watch.