It’s all a moot point anyway, because the “should have complied” argument does not hold water in a democratic and free society. Societies where people can be executed on sight for not “complying” (i.e. not respecting authority figures enough), or where they can be executed on sight for ANY reason without a trial are…

Any guy who calls himself a “nice guy”, isn’t.

When older men date younger women, it’s because younger women are easier to manipulate and control. Women their actual age are less likely to put up with their gaslighting crap and will rightfully tell them off for it.