“We’re all super diverse! Whitney’s a honey blonde, I’m platinum, Stephanie’s exploring ash highlights...”

Agreed. I also have a fondness for Take a Bow.

“We have tens of millions of citizens who WILLFULLY CHOOSE to ignore facts and believe their own version of reality.”

Unfortunately there is no amount of sane, rational articles from professionals that will ever, ever, change the minds of anti-choice folks. I give up. They willfully ignore all information that is actually fact-based and informative. Just like they do with so many other subjects. I say time and time again on here how…

If one starts, the rest will sync up and start as well.  it’s science /s

She is my spirit movie star.

I’m also the Lily Tomlin supporter of this non-couple.

Excuse me, but you forgot to mention Super Monsters.

I thought I was the only person that did this! My friends always (lovingly) mock me for reading the synopses of every new horror movie that comes out (plus Game of Thrones). Many a night, my husband comes home to find me staring at the screen, terrified, after reading a bunch of synopses.

I’m all about reading movies.  

Ha, I thought I was the only person who does this! I always want to know what the most popular ones are about but am too chicken to watch them. The original recap of the first Paranormal Activity scared me so much I couldn’t walk the dogs at night for a week. THE RECAP. I have never actually seen this movie. In the…

Club Girth has EVERYTHING.

Me Too! *waves hello. My therapist is like “you do more by 7 am than I do in a day - you are enough” and I just keep paying her to say it because every other person in my life seems to keep wanting more from me :) So let me tell you - you are enough and you are awesome! And if you haven’t read any Brene Brown I…

Is that your subconscious or our society, though?

I would add that for women especially, this insecure overachieving extends far beyond work. We do the same thing with relationships and with raising children. A lot of women do way too much emotional labor (and actual labor) for their significant others, out of fear of losing them. And when we have kids, we overwork…

“But the kind of insecurity that drives you to overachieve is like constant self-punishment, and if you keep moving your own goalposts, you’ll drive yourself insane.”

Huh. For as much as Depp shits the bed, you’d think a little dog poop would go unnoticed.

Before I hit play on the J Lo video, I briefly hoped against hope (just from the setting and her dress) that she would be doing this number, which I think she could:

Ludacris will always be a top 5 rapper for me. I'm southern and those beatssss. Good on dude.