American here, and I’ve been using grey for so long now, gray just looks weird.

I thought the presidential pardon day was for thanksgiving turkeys!(I don’t actually know) Maybe a nicer analogy for us than criminals, lol.

I lurk instead of bothering to comment because chances are no one will see it anyway. Kinda feel like if a tree falls in the forest/if a grey leaves a comment wil anyone see?

You’re ungrayed! You get ungrayed when Jezebel or one of their subblogs on Jezebel follows you. If you go over to the Root or Gizmodo, then you need to be ungrayed by their editorial staff by getting “followed.” No one knows how or why they get followed in the first place.

How does one get ungreyed? Am I ungreyed?

Another open thread? What did we do to deserve this?

Girl. I turned 30, my husband peaced out for a side chick I’d been friends with, and I spent a month and some change on my parent’s couch, not eating and barely blinking.

Oh my gawd. I hate him on your behalf. Fuck that guy, not worthy of your time or energy (though I get the pain). What a lowly pos he is.

(Raises hand) been ghosted, been played, broke down, swore off men, rose up, showed up to a dinner and met someone who Im dating. The Jezzies are awesome.

Nuttin but love! 💗

Ghosting is such a low activity. Honestly, who thought that up?

Yay! Glad you kept going. It’s a tough world out there.

It’s ghosting when it happens after a date or two....when it’s a longterm relationship it’s pure sociopathy! So sorry that happened to you

I’ve been a lurker here for years. This community has helped me in more ways I can count. It’s nice seeing people care for one another and support each other. It really keeps me going sometimes too!

Hi, Jezebelles (and beaux)!

<3 I was also a lurker here for a while and just started commenting after a tough few months. Let me piggyback on your post to say you SNS Jezzies are the best, and add my thanks too :) hugs to you Maya, whatever you're going through (and feel free to share if that would make you feel better).

First, though I know it’s useless, I have to say how sorry I am that you and your husband are going through this.

This is going to be a bummer, sorry, but I need help.