I have posted this anecdote before under a different username.

If I am calm is a lesbian, I would think her POV would matter a lot. When my husband and I were trying to figure out how we could make our wedding more equal and less stuck-in-patriarchy-mode, we looked at how gay and lesbian couples handled their weddings without the expectations of gender roles.

If only it were kosher to put “must behave like a grown up” in my dating profile. I fear that’s still keeping the bar far too high.

I think that this suggests that the asker must always have enough money for a date then. When I was dead broke, plenty of guys I asked on dates were still glad to go out with me, but usually wanted to do stuff that cost more than I could afford and so would offer to pay. I would have been happy to mAke them a Totinos…

Life sucks when you can’t act like a grown up. Maybe that’s the real issue, but WTF do I know.

My reading comprehension is fine. I just don’t agree with you. Two different things. The fact that you assumed I’m a man based on the fact that I didn’t agree with doesn’t worry me at all. If it did, I’d need my head examined. It should make you wonder about your assumptions though...maybe...especially when I have…

Meh. First date or so, asker pays. After that, grown ass people should figure out their own shit based own their own relationship instead of gender roles, blogs, or random expectations from a world full of strangers. It might require an actual conversation. If you can’t do that, their’s no fucking hope for you.

Yeah I found out very quickly after I started dating my husband who my racist “I’m not a racist!” friends were. Like very liberal leaning people but when they heard that at my in laws house they mostly speak mandarin they were like “that is so rude, I mean they are in America, and they know you can’t speak mandarin,…

No actual advice, but I totally understand the hot pizza guy situation.

I mean, live your life. If he’s hot and you both wanna, go hog wild.

HEY! If this bitch is the customer, I do not fucking want to be polite to the customer! And I can say that in at least three languages, connasse!

This is America, speak English, a language that did not originate on this continent, but is instead the end result of multiple ethnicities invading a large island in Northern Europe and then over centuries interbreeding and then proceeding to invade other countries and intermix with those ethnicities to produce a…

American person: “Speak English, this is America!”

That’s what I do: When I want to see Americans speaking English, I go to a kebab shop.

Well I mean. My gross body brings me a lot of happiness too.

Ugh, we had a girl like that in law school. She was so NOT Native American Indian, but changed her name from Sue to Sioux and got hired by the Department of the Interior. Because of course.

This is true but why refuse if you’ve got nothing to hide? And she was coming back from a Waka Flacka concert.... And she’s the type of person to get a barbie jeep and ride it around. I just don’t know, man.

Saw this yesterday and thoroughly enjoyed it. I keep asking people how this stunt is any different from that whole “Sharia Law” term that gets thrown about in horror by Christians. Isn’t that fear, in essence, a group of people holding the laws of their faith above the laws of the land?

Here, here.

I know that we don’t want her to become a “martyr” for this cause by going to jail, I also really don’t think those convictions will hold her over for very long. Jail sucks.