Well, it's also pretty awful that there are people out there who think that women who don't go bald are disgusting animals. My personal habits and preferences are just that - private - but lets please face the fact that most of the negative messaging about pube grooming is aimed at women who don't shave, or who…

So weird to me how angry the pro-shaving crowd gets about any attempt to critique the practice. Methinks they doth protest too much.

Aaaand we're off! Personally I agree with you, but I think it's that young women are spending an inordinate amount of time trying to please men by resembling porn stars. Sad.

Did you see the film?

I think they didn't even see Dallas buyers club. Still a lot of HIV stigma in certain corners too, not sure that isn't a little part of why people are SO SURE that he didn't do a worthy performance. See the other nominees reactions (Forrest?)? So disrespectful.

Seriously. Let's go back to debating pubes and skinny/curvy stigma.

I think it's not the best lighting for anyone's face here really. But I had the same thought; maybe a darker or brighter less metallic lipstick?

Me too! I thought that was Jessica Lange from afar.

Yawn. I was waiting for this contingent to show up.

Baby steps.

I'm with you to the extent that threads always seem to be hijacked by the same homogenous commenters. So whoever is moderating or deciding who gets to be gray instead of black is setting the tone for the site.

I'm so glad she won. It's her time, she's done such great work and been nominated so many times. And she's so pretty, not that that matters.

So funny. I always got more play when I was "in between" jobs. I also had more time on my hands. But I was always kind of surprised that my joblessness didn't bother men more.

But a "partner" is (or should be) someone you're in it (life) together with. Not someone you met a few months ago at a party. So if your "partner" makes a lot of money, that means that you are also doing well. That's what being in a partnership is all about. What you're talking about is being insecure because your…

Yeah, that's happened to me too, although sometimes in NYC I feel like it's that people are just really disinterested in my job. In some circles, being a lawyer is just really boring. Better to be a stylist or a designer of some sort. (Ugh, Williamsburg).

But you're saying that your insecurity should matter MORE than our reaction to this study. But that places you at the center of the discourse, see? Is that really where you belong today?

Mmmmmmaybe you should consider working this through with a professional? Because times are not going to be a'changing and it sounds like these things are making you unhappy and holding you back from having healthy relationships. Also if you are anything like the guy in my life that you sound like, your insecurities…

So this is why so many mommybloggers.

Why can't she wear something like this to an awards show?

I think she's getting attention (on Jezzie at least) because she's a very beautiful, elegant, and stylish woman, yes. Someone else pointed out that she has an Alek Wek look, and may be benefiting from some kind of novelty excitement in the fashion world that may not translate into better or more film roles. So YES,…