Yeah, that makes sense. I just wish so many women and girls weren’t interested in the procedure just based on aesthetics and the (incorrect) perception that large labia are abnormal.

I know that chimps go for the genitals, face, and fingers.

WAS NOT EXPECTING TO SEE AN ACTUAL SURGERY. Wow. Also, Rosie’s sister is a total bitch. I can’t believe her bullying lead to such extreme measures. Some labia are large enough to cause discomfort, so I can see wanting reduction for that reason just as easily as I can understand breast reduction. It appears that the…

I went to the Grand Canyon with my family when I was a young teen. My little brothers scared me the ENTIRE TIME. I was certain that at least one of them was going to die.

One of my favorite unconventional love songs is P.S. You Rock My World by the Eels, if that helps at all.

How about Thank You by Led Zeppelin?

My friends walked out of the sanctuary to Thank You. It was perfection.

I love your smile in this picture! Wishing you a long and happy marriage.

My brother is getting married in a few months, and he just called me the other day to talk about this. I’m trying to help, but it’s harder than I expected to come up with something that isn’t creepy.

Thanks for linking to that. I get that these concerns can get to sounding concern-trolly; like Jones isn’t an adult who can choose to accept or reject a role without asking anyone else’s permission. But on the other hand, it just seems . . . a bit . . . I’m struggling for words here, but though I agree that regular…

That was all great, until I got to the part where all the white actresses are scientists and Jones is a former transit worker. That is really, really disappointing. And pretty . . . obvious (not sure that’s the word I’m looking for) . . . I mean, three white scientists and one black blue-collar worker. Didn’t anyone…

Well, so much for that theory. The only transgender people I’ve known also changed their names, so it was pretty clear which pronouns they preferred. Sounds like you’re going to have to ask for your office mates preferred pronouns.

Is it the kind of feminine name that can also be a man’s name? Like Ashley or something? Because your office mate might just be a guy with a name that is often (but not always) considered feminine.

Bravo

I couldn’t agree more. He made terrorist threats on Twitter!

You said it.

That is so well said!

I used to tell myself, “They just don’t know how bad it is. When people know, things will be different.” I can’t tell myself that lie anymore, and the truth that it reveals—that there is a substantial group of white people in this country that just don’t really care about black people—is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry…

Aaaaaaaaah, I love it when babies shake their heads too hard and fall over, it’s just too cute. (And yes, I have video of my cousin’s daughter doing the same thing. It makes me laugh every time I watch it.) Baby clumsiness is adorable.

Yeah, I know. I was just going along with the joke.