Take your concern trolling about something that didn't even happen and GTFO.

Oh my god dude. You so obviously want to be the fucking morality police. Grow up.

If it's my best friend then I know all about her life and stuff so it's a moot point because I would know he is cheating.

The best part was, it was not even cheating! The real problem is when fucking family wants to chime in on your sex life. Then it turns into a cheating situation, despite what any of the participants involved say.

I feel like you're a little shit at parties.

Having a wedding is a privilege! This woman bought and paid for a wedding dress (privilege!) to throw a big fancy party (privilege!). I don't know why you're acting like having a wedding is a right, but trashing a wedding dress is a travesty. If painting the dress is how the jilted woman wants to use her wedding…

OMFG! Have you been waiting all day to pull the white privilege card? Feel better now?

Well, my wedding dress cost less than yours. It was a little more than I could afford at the time — and my parents didn't pay a dime for my wedding.

Marriage is all about privilege. You're forking out thousands for a party where everyone has to buy you lavish gifts, and spend a fair sum to look appropriate. Sure, having a fancy dress is a privilege, but it's not exactly the biggest problem with weddings.

I've read this entire, entertaining, thread. For Pete's sake, it was her own damn dress. It doesn't matter what any of us THINK she should or should not have done. It's none of our business. Having said that, I got a huge kick out of the pictures, and the way she handled it, with the charity and all, is so…

She did set-up a charity drive though. So instead of just helping one person, she will helping many. So I would think that, that balances it out. It also seems like a pretty awesome non-profit too.

Sooooooo, when you bought yours, you were covered with privilege, right? But by donating it after your marriage it went south somehow makes your behavior superior to hers. Lovely.

yanno... not everyone spends a fucking fortune on a wedding dress. I know people who spent several thousand on a fucking dress. I spent 600. That I saved up and paid for by myself. Yeah it's still 600. But if I got jilted, I would have no qualms doing what she did. Privilege smivilege. Not every fucking thing…

And I'm sure someone would love to get it now, and not consider it destroyed at all. I think it's rather pretty with the paint on it, and definitely unique. Please don't think I'm trying to knock your choice to donate your own wedding dress. I think it's nice that you did. I just don't think this woman deserves shade…

It may be in great shape, but that isn't the point. A wedding dress is personal. The fact that this particular dress was involved with ill-fated nuptials that didn't happen adds another layer of complexity. A lot of brides are very superstitious.

Wasn't used? A wedding dress is tried on multiple times. It is fitted to the person who buys it. I don't know if anything can get more used than that, regardless of whether or not it made it down the aisle. Even poor brides, believe it or not, mostly prefer to select their own dress, even if it is within their small…

I think you are vastly overestimating the market for donated wedding dresses.

People absolutely avoid shit like that! People don't like buying used wedding rings for the same reason.

With no context, sure - most people would agree with you.

Would you still have donated it had you not gotten divorced? Why not donate it immediately following your wedding, since you don't need it anymore and it would just be going to waste in storage somewhere?

Seriously, good for you for donating your dress but don't go holier than thou on this young woman for not doing the…