Right now I've got a little sparkly thing in there. I switched out my hoop for my background check interview today. Also, visible tattoos are a bird and the outline of my state (one on both calves), the others are always hidden, unless I'm in a bikini or sleeveless shirt (which I don't wear because I like being…

Right now I've got a little sparkly thing in there. I switched out my hoop for my background check interview today. Also, visible tattoos are a bird and the outline of my state (one on both calves), the others are always hidden, unless I'm in a bikini or sleeveless shirt (which I don't wear because I like being…

Right now I've got a little sparkly thing in there. I switched out my hoop for my background check interview today. Also, visible tattoos are a bird and the outline of my state (one on both calves), the others are always hidden, unless I'm in a bikini or sleeveless shirt (which I don't wear because I like being…

That's a good idea. I can wear jeans, t's (even sleeveless apparently!). I think I'll start semi-professionally looking (suit-y stuff) then progress to "me".

Thanks! I'm also 6' tall, so I was thinking or wearing heels to be more intimidating. Also, I can't wear them elsewhere and I want to!

Hello, friends: two seperate questions, both important and quite different:

On a similar note, I tried that KY Your's and Mine last night. Didn't work too well. I have a super low libido, and combined with anti-depressants, an almost nonexistant one these days. I'm trying everything I can. My fiance wants to buy me a vibrator, but for some reason I still have sex shame. I used to be…

My fiance won't shut up about Uchi/Uchiko. They're sushi-Japanese farmhouse restaurants in Austin. Also, some donut place called Goudough or something is supposed to be awesome. They have canadian bacon and maple syrup donuts.

Once, a super-romantic and heated first date turned into us having sex on the floor, then, mid-way, him answering his mom's phone call asking him what he needed from Wal-Mart. Ok, I say super-romantic, but really, that was the first time I had sex. I'm just trying to make it less bad. I always get a kick out of…

I saw it, and had mixed emotions. Mostly, I was thinking, "why do so many people go abroad when so many here in the U.S. need help?" The White family is unique in their own way, but so many families in the U.S. are so disenfranchised that I'm sure they have the same financial/emotional strife as this family, but no…

My fiancé has Freddy Mercury tattooed on his thigh. He's pretty anti-baby, but when he sees this, I'm sure he'll be all like, "Well, just pop one out already, will ya?"

Rant ahead:

I'm 6' and skinny. I wear size 2 jeans, extra long. Also, I smoke, I drink excessively and don't exercise. I know that I'm not healthy, and I hate that my appearance has that connotation. As far as being healthy. I'm not. I wish I were, and I hate that my outward appearance "advertises" me as healthy, when I certainly…

I think they go hand-in-hand. Friends understand you pain, and booze dulls it. I vote both. You will wake up feeling bad physically, maybe, but emotionally, you had your friends there for you and your emotions will know that it still fuckig hurts, but that there's more to you life than a single relationship. That…

Luckily, the only "pressure" is from my mom, saying "I want GRANDBABIES" though I've told her that her grandbabies would only come if puppy form. She's cool with everything, even puppy grandchildren. My brother is getting married, too, and they are way more "normal" than me, so I bet human babies will come soon enough.

Thanks! It's going to be super-personal, but also super-informal. After we sign our papers, we're going to pour one out for all our gay friends that can't get married in Oklahoma, then toast our families and friends, then yell "Party Time!" and eat some awesome food. While everyone is eating and drinking, we'll play…

Interesting factoid: In the US, chocolate is the "lady period omg I'm dying cramps PMS ahhhh" stereotype food, but in Mexico, cream puffs are the equivalent.

If you are in the South (down Oklahoma way), come!

I am getting married in a bar, with a burlesque dancer as the "priest" and wearing a brown repurposed bridemaids gown. The event will end in piñata smashing. Is that not serious? We don't do churchy things. We just want a party. If you were a guest, would you think we were making a joke out of a marriage? We don't…

Weird, but I'm serious: Kiss a beet. That shit is proven to stay forever, even if it is hippy-dippy.