Exactly. I thought it was weird that she said tons of judgmental things about the way feminism is enacted by mostly younger women, but then criticized Steinem and Albright for being judgemental towards young, female Bernie supporters.

Not unhealthy at all, sounds like it could easily be burnout. Hope whatever you do works out for you!

It sounds like you could use professional help? Therapy might help you deal with things better, if you aren’t trying it already.

They do!! If you keep holding out, someday you’ll be able to think of him and it won’t hurt a bit. This is the uphill part.

I’m watching the last episode of Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. Thanks to everyone who recommended it! It’s perfection.

That’s true. It just rubs me the wrong way to use the same word that’s applied to procedures that are much more dangerous to a woman’s health, sexual and otherwise.

I’m tempted to challenge him to specify—because what he really means is that non-elective genital mutilation is wrong. Mutilating your labia and augmenting your vagina is just fine (in both his mind and mine), just so long as you’re the one who’s chosen to do it.

You’re totally ignoring that he chose to offend someone. These are just the consequences.

I think that’s a good argument in some case - a lot of entertainers miss the mark when trying to say something - but I don’t see how it applies here. What satire was there to misunderstand? He didn’t tell a joke that was misunderstood by some viewers; he told a joke that was ignorant for no good reason, no…

All these people are kids, right? Their viewers, too? Saying things that are rude/hurtful and finding that inherently funny seems like a thing most people leave behind as they age.

Amazon has a bunch of affordable, nontraditional dresses where you give your measurements to the shop. Most are from China and I’m not sure how ethical they are, but a bunch of cheap American dresses are coming from the same place, so...

I read the books a long time before the series started and I’m pretty happy with the TV series. Miller’s haircut is stupid and I feel like the rest of the Roci crew outshine Holden a bit, but I’m really looking forward to more of season 2. The last couple of episodes have been pretty great.

Hmm, I hoped the information might be available during interviewing. Anyway, it probably depends on your field but getting out of a contract might come back to you. I’d not renew, as long as your savings can last a little bit.

I sympathize with you - I used to bake a lot of desserts, and then my husband started a diet. Better for me, too, I suppose.

I’ve been planning to watch Killjoys, already a big fan of The Expanse (books and show). :)

Are the start dates for a new position negotiable?

You’ve probably heard it before, but you shouldn’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. If he can’t take that final step, you shouldn’t suffer eternally for it.

That’s stupid. I know plenty of women who love to hunt.

You could ask your landlord if they have any programs or ideas.

I got a Cargo colorstick in my Allure box, and still sometimes find sparkles on my wrist where I tested it. The color is nice and pretty, but doesn’t seem very usable; I’ve never gotten a multi-use color product that really worked well at more than one thing.