I can’t even think of it in those terms, it stresses me so much. Like I was under the impression this was going to be temporary, maybe two months at the longest. We’re now pushing three months and there is no end in sight. I’m at the end of my rope.

I’m sorry that you have a person like that in your life too. :(

You would think that, wouldn’t you? Like that would be the normal, nice, rational thing to do. But no, she does things that she knows is going to piss me off and then acts like I’m the bad guy and a horrid monster when I yell at her. (And yeah, I shouldn’t yell at her, but it’s not like I’m calling her names or saying…

That’s actually a really good idea. I don’t know where I would put it because my room is super small and cramped, but I would probably be able to work it out if I can find one for cheap enough.

She doesn’t have a job or an income right now. And I can’t “rock the boat” because it “creates stress” and I just “have to tolerate it” (this is not coming from her, she just tells me I’m a horrible person when I yell at her for shit which is fine because idgaf what she thinks).
Otherwise, that would be a really good…

A lot of it is about the boundaries. It’s not so much with food, I’m really really weird about food and I have been since I was a kid. Like I have some serious issues with food. But with the other stuff, it’s not so much that I care if she uses it, it’s that it’s incredibly disrespectful to use it without asking. (Or…

Yeah but it probably doesn’t warrant the level of blood curdling murderous rage I feel. And it probably doesn’t warrant death threats (although I didn’t do that this time, I just told her to not fucking eat my food and at least fucking ask and then slammed a bunch of cupboards while I made myself new food).

Thank you. :)

I would do it if it was just me, but if it was just me I would have kicked her out by now, so. It would be considered rude and rocking the boat and undoubtedly create a lot of really unpleasant drama if I did that. :\
(It might also lead to her moving out earlier so maybe I should it anyway...)

I’m probably going to…

Omg. Just reading that is getting me super pissed off again. Who the fuck takes bites out of food and puts it back? What is that even? I do that with my OWN food, if I’m picking, but not communal food and certainly not with food that belongs to other people.
And I just don’t get this shit. Is it like, a family member…

I am so close to taking you up on that. So freaking close.

Because moving in with my dad is my only other affordable option and he lives out of state. :\

Okay so I’m not going to get into serious details about who I’m talking about but I just need to rant for a second.
Someone has been crashing at my apartment for a few months and DOES NOT UNDERSTAND BOUNDARIES. I have talked to her MULTIPLE times, nicely and incredibly angrily, about not TAKING MY FUCKING FOOD WITHOUT…

iirc he was never that forward or clear about his feelings for her, but there were still a lot of hints and a lot of things that made it seem like they should be together in the books. Pretty much all of their interactions with each other contributed to that.

She definitely does start out immature too, but she matures a lot faster than Ron does in many ways. Also I always gave her a pass about her immaturity because in general she annoys me less than Ron does when he’s being moody and immature.

I agree with everything else you said though. :)

I wanted Luna to marry Neville, and in my mind they did marry even though according to canon they definitely did not. But I’m just going to ignore that.
They would have been great together.

That’s definitely true (about the celebrity bit). I’m not sure how I feel about Krum. He seemed to really care about her and value her, and he always seemed to treat her really well. But I’m not sure if they really had enough in common or not to connect long term, you know?

Well yeah the magical community is worldwide, but again, unless they move abroad or people immigrate they’re mostly going to be interacting with other wizards and witches who probably went to Hogwarts with them (or went to Hogwarts at some point, for sure). So I don’t find them marrying their classmates weird.
(Although…

I know you didn’t ask me but I don’t think it’s ever possible to spend too much time thinking about the Wizarding World. Literally how I put myself to sleep at night is thinking about it and thinking about alternate possibilities and writing bad fan fiction in my head.

I really like that idea of things :)