They don’t actually have to do that with this one, for everyone. It’s one size fits “most” women. I finally looked at their website last night instead of just speculating in the comments on here, and they say if you’ve had a diaphragm in the past and it was in a range of sizes (I think they give like four or five…

I think I saw the same chart, but I don’t actually know if my vaginal canal is like shallow or what. Going off these comments it sounds like it might tend towards shallow but be mostly average?

Thank you for the info, actually! I want to get a menstrual cup but I’m worried about getting one that fits right, so this helps. :)

It’s Kinja. I finally emailed the help people about it because it had been happening to me for like a week and I was sick of it, and they said it’s a site wide problem that they’re trying to fix. So hopefully it will be fixed soon. :)

It happens like 90% of the time, although it’s kind of position dependent. It’s only seriously seriously painful with big guys, but I’ve had average sized guys hurt me accidentally too. :(
I have the tendency to have sex when I’m not super pre-aroused though, like without a lot of foreplay, so that might be why.

That’s gross. Do they just throw trash on their floor at home, too? Or are they just totally rude and disrespectful?
I’ve never had a guy do that, but I do have a trash can in my bedroom, so they don’t have to really move much to use it.

I pride myself on being adventurous with food. I’ll try literally anything once. And I’m not picky, so I usually like it. I really enjoy trying new things that are considered weird by American standards. :)
My mom is the total opposite though - I’m really into Asian foods, but you know that some of those look kind of…

I have never met a woman who enjoys having her cervix hit. Are you sure that’s not a myth?

I’m not sure if you’re talking about menstrual cups or this caya thing. I’m probably not going to get caya because I don’t like going to my doctor (I don’t have good insurance), and I want a menstrual cup but I started doing research and got super overwhelmed by how many options there are and how many sizes there are.…

You might have actually already seen this but someone else had questions about this too and it’s addressed on another comment thread on this article.
Basically you wear it for long enough that the sperm dies off/is no longer viable after intercourse. The website says 6 hours. So the semen does what semen does when you…

I didn’t think they did but in recent months I have seen evidence that makes me think maybe some women still do soo idk.

Yeah, I’m on the BC pill and luckily it doesn’t do anything fucked up to me (I cry pretty easy but I cried pretty easy before and everything else is normal), but a lot of women can’t take it. Also I have to be on a high dose one because low dose ones made me spot/bleed for 2+ weeks a month which was fucking annoying…

I actually really really do want a menstrual cup but I started doing research and got overwhelmed by how many different ones and different sizes there are. :(

I just watched it because you asked, and yeah, that looks bizarre. Like the video actually confused me more than the basic idea of it did, and I’m lucky I know my own anatomy pretty well. Women who don’t might get kind of lost with just that video.
Also I would never describe my cervix as a cherry or feeling like my…

Dear god, cervices can prolapse? The only reason I even know what prolapse is is because of that awful rosebud article by Mark Shrayber a while back (if you haven’t read it I recommend not reading it). That sounds scary.

That actually makes a LOT of sense given some of my sexual experiences. I thought the guy was just too big or bad at sexing.
I feel like they probably taught me this in school but the only sex ed I had was like 7th or 8th grade and young teen and pre-teens just are not interested in that sort of stuff.

I wonder if you could like.... make your own diaphragm with one of those cups and spermicide. It’s probably not a good idea, but if someone who is not me wants to try it...

Yeah, I mean, I am INTIMATELY acquainted with my own anatomy. But I’ve never really like explored another woman’s and compared mine to her’s and compared the depth of our cervices and stuff.

I’m not sure. I know that some drugs will move from prescription only to OTC, but I’m not sure if they had plans to take it OTC all along or if they just eventually did it.

no, I’m only into her semen. D: