that sounds pretty spot on, I think that is why strip clubs don't appeal to me, I hate losing count of money spent, but it seems like a pretty good tactic. If they just made you put down 300$ from the beginning there would probably be less takers.

hahaha it was actually a gift for me ;) he knew I liked woman and wanted to do something nice for me and he knew I had never been before so he took me there and paid for a couple of girls to dance on me for like an hour. A really great client and friend.

I guess it depends on where you are from as well, I am in Canada and have a pretty clear website detailing what I like sexually and not. My price is for my time and I don't do things I don't like for extra money or anything like that. But of course it just depends on the girl as well who might like to do things like…

good to know!

but doesn't it vary greatly depending on the club/city etc?

agreed!

This seems so complicated and stressful for both ends. Customers don't know exactly how much to give and tip and to who, dancers don't know how much they will end up getting that night. UGH. I went to a strip club once with one of my clients who handled all the money stuff but if it were just me alone I would be…

im gonna have to imdb this guy

hahahaha yea he was a weirdo, but berger still takes the cake for me.

Oh totally degrassi actors are our big celebrities. I would have loved to run into Jamie Oliver. I guess for people who live in London, New York or LA it is normal to run into celebrities. I was in New York for a week and *might* have seen the younger sister of the olsen twins, but that is only a maybe lol

I have this HUGE list of movies that people tell me I have to see, so I will add that one, I need to get on it jeez I am behind in the world I know :P

That is so cool. I really wish I lived somewhere where celebrities roamed free. I think I saw a degrassi actresss once her in Montreal, and a newscaster at the liqueur store. That is all :(

I have never actually seen him in anything other than satc and I would just like to say that he was my LEAST favourite among all of Carrie's boyfriends. I think his passive aggressive form of emotional abuse was just the freakin worst....that said, nice to hear he is actually cool in real life.

haha yea there are good things too here!

point taken. In any situation no matter how rough there is always going to be a situation worse, that being said, there are always options, there are always going to be better options than watch your child being abused.

Thanks, and I know its not always easy, I know there are barriers, stigmas, financial issues at play with woman staying in abusive relationships, just when children are involved it is so so hard for me to give the benefit of the doubt because it is an emotional subject, but I know there are other issues that we need…

So true! I live in the province of Quebec in Canada where we have government subsidized daycare at 7$ a day. It was literally a life changing factor that allowed me to be an amazing single mother.

I so want to give this woman the benefit of the doubt, but I just can't do it. I was punched in the face for the first time in my life when I was 3 months pregnant and I was out of there the next day with not a penny to my name. I took a cash advance from my credit card to pay my first months rent and from there I…

I totally agree with this. I am an escort so I find it hard to express my views on porn without sounding hypocritical and I don't want to perpetuate the hierarchy bullshit that goes on among people in the sex industry but when I (rarely) watch main stream porn it is kind of horrifying for me. I have been in the escort…

this seems to be very common, sometimes the first thing a guy will say to me on tinder is "so are you real??"