Valerie and Back to Black for me. She could always nail those Amy Winehouse songs.

That I understand.... my husband and I just spent the last 20 mins attempting a delicate surgery of Pasithea d’Floof’s undercarriage using embroidery scissors, hot wet rag and a LOT of complaining (from both she AND my husband. I planned ahead and fortified myself for the job with tequila, so it’s all good for me) to…

I was suffering from post-partum depression at the beginning of the quarantine and one of the things that was hugely therapeutic was creating my own personal work space that was private from the baby and my husband in the nook in my closet. I repainted the walls twice to get the right gray, and bought a selfie light…

Kitteh!! ♡

JESUS H CHRIST ON A CRACKER DID YOU KNOW THERE’S A MOUNTAIN LION ON YOUR DESK OH MY GOD THE HUMANITY!!!

BF got a similar little metal phone stand for his bedside table and it’s legit great! Has a little hole for you to run the charging cord through so it’s not constantly falling back behind the table and everything. Also the fur-monster is an *excellent* addition to this setup.

I want to pet the kitty!!

It’s important to teach your children that life is horrifying and full of random tragedy at an early age.

We tried to raise butterflies with our kids a few weeks ago and it was an absolute nightmare. Got the mail order caterpillars, bought a bunch of milkweed and put them all in a big butterfly enclosure. Many of the cocoons detached from the enclosure wall and fell to the floor. When this happens, the pupae convulse and d…

My dad only cooked two things, both expertly. Bacon and eggs basted in bacon grease on Sundays and after midnight mass on Christmas Eve, and popcorn. He prided himself on having no unpopped or burnt kernels in his popcorn. I still make it his way, on the stove, shaking the pan a little above the heat, then melting…

I’m glad he did too, it provided an opportunity for Julianne to point out that makeup is not a requirement for offensive brownface costumes.

My time is better spent running this website, which is my job, rather than doing the emotional work of explaining racism to a man whose staff has been explaining it to him all goddamn week. - THANK YOU!

Um he kept the effing photo on his DESK AT WORK!? Wtf. Clueless and racist. Bad combo.

No. We can all improve and grow, and we should all strive to do so for the duration of our lifetimes. That doesn’t mean anyone is obligated to make room for us in their lives, especially if they are among those we mistreated in our pasts.

Whoo boy, the notion that the US — which again, has committed literal genocide, routinely abuses wide swathes of its people in service of capital, exports violence and death around the word to secure its power, and incarcerates both a greater percentage of its population and a greater number of people period than any…

Haunted, or just really ugly? I think people conflate the two a lot. Sometimes a thing is just ugly y’all.

The only real error young Ashley made was naming the wrong mushroom. He doesn’t look like a cremini, cremini mushrooms are cute. He does look exactly like a portobello.

Man, keep that shit on AO3. 

Mrs O tagging her man in Crown Royal was a freak nasty mood.