Exactly. When everyone assumes the woman is changing her name, they don’t blink if you walk in and ask to change it to the male name on the certificate. A dude is going to have to have the conversation about WHY he’s doing it, and how WEIRD that is over and over and over.

Mr. Bells was actually surprised I took his. We hadn’t really discussed it and he just assumed I was keeping mine. Although it wasn’t “mine”, it was my ex’s name (he was also of the “we’re not really married if you don’t” school) so I wasn’t keen on keeping that.

The thing is, a lot of the infrastructure isn’t set up for guys to do it. As a woman, I just had to walk into anyplace with my marriage license and they did it no questions asked. A man I knew who changed his ended up having to go to court with a name change petition to get it done. Stroll into the DMV with your…

Yes, my cousin is a conservative and devout Christian, and she’s currently sporting a rainbow profile picture as well. But my family is Boston-conservative, which is pretty liberal in a weird way.

I’m all rainbows and happiness too. If anyone isn’t they’re either staying quiet about it, or haven’t been on Facebook in a week.

Some people have a REALLY hard time with the distinction between CIVIL marriage and RELIGIOUS marriage. Two separate things, FoxFolks.

My FB feed is 99% rainbows. I think I’m doing well on the friend front.

I devoutly hope he’ll be the last president that has to stand up at a memorial service like that.

I think I may take some version of this meme to Costco and have it made into a giant print. Obama has no fucks left to give and it’s glorious.

I was watching my daughter’s Twitch stream when some guy asked if I streamed too. I said “No, because I play games slow and also I resemble a potato.”

I like the spot in between the inner and outer labia.

Dibs on Lea Delaria.

I’m going to do the weirdest readings from Shakespeare and the Song of Solomon, then.

I always love those arguments, because it’s like “Great. The GRAND TOTAL OF 5 PEOPLE who are potatosexual will marry a potato and the world will keep right on spinning.”

I grew up in So Cal, in Thousand Oaks. Most harassment was stuff yelled out of moving cars.

I was usually told that I should be fucking him. Even if it was like 1:30 on the afternoon on a Tuesday, because neither of us needed jobs, I guess. And sometimes they’d tell me he was cheating on me anyway, so I should ... get mine, I guess?

Yup. I got out a lot more often than my husband likes to. I feel like that happens more in a younger age group, though. When I was even 35 I didn’t want to go anywhere without my spouse. Now I’m like “It’s Me Time, feed the kids please.” and I take off.

Look if our agriculture can no longer contribute to our economy, we’re gonna need that sweet porn income. He’s not thinking this through because that’s going to eliminate nearly every woman in porn.

Seriously, the gross ones just think it’s a “challenge”, so they’re not gonna stop anyway.