The question isnt should you tell but rather should you cheat. Ive been tempted and offered it on a plate and yrs i have ended relationships to move on with new guys but cheat, never. Such a dispicable thing to do and i could not respect myself if i did. It bugs me people think it ok. Do they think stealing or…

My memory if a jungle gym is falling off and breaking my elbow. Not a sexy ghing!

*smiles* HAPPY MEMORIES. I havent thought about let alone done any dry humping for maybe 20 years. I got into masturbation through a fortuitous coming together between a scatter cushion and my crotch as a preschooler. I had no idea what it was for years but it felt good and i stuck with it, slowly developing and…

Its about how it is portrayed. Is masturbation you saying hey i can do without you or you arent able to satisfy me, or is it just you saying this feels good and i like doing it but it wont get in the way of me loving you and taking every drop of jizz you are able to shoot into me whenever you want me. My analogy would…

Same the world over but i would add that a good sex positive shop is non judgemental and very knowledgable on hetro, solo, homo, group, trans intimacy issues regardless of the genital grouping, sexual identity and sexual preferences of its staff. If i found an all lesbian run shop that gave this service I would go…

Sex positive shops treat you normally and it feels like you are just shopping for shoes or something though matter of fact information and advice is available. One i used was great (shwomenstore). When i went the first time i said nothing avoided eye contact picked up a dildo, paid and left. Next time (week later as i…

Use lovehoney.com. they are brilliant and do what we want adult toy companies to do plus yhey have a no quibble 12 month return it for a full refund no matter what the reason policy. I didnt get on with a Lelo Soriya and sent it vack, git a refund and purchase other stuff. Returned stuff is destroyed so no danger…

I am not employed by or otherwise rewarded by them to say positive things so this is my honest opinion... Lovehoney, which started in the UK but now serves much of the world with local offices and warehouse is unbeatable. Great prices and discount vouchers available, superb customer service that covers all your…

Maybe when society grows up a bit more the idea of toys that are not intuative being modelled would be the best option. I learnt a lot about using the Womanizer from porn videos of a French woman (charlie liveshow) but wished these were not so porn biased. A straight factual explanation and demo of key points without…

True it has no penetrative element but that just means the guy is missing out. If no internal involvement is critical then a pair of pantyhose with a small hole for penetration and a cheap wire vibrating egg will do things better than this toy as it will allow emmergency powerdown at orgasm as you rightly point out…

So not convinced. Hand mirror and light to hand I had a look at myself to size things up. I am a bit over weight so my labia majora are more fleshy maybe than most but otherwise i am, from internet porn research, quite standard dowm there and geel if it fits the average woman it should fit me. However my vulva cleft…

I class myself as straight but still want to comment. I think you overplay the idea that a person loving someone with the same bodyplan will know more about what will please their partner than someone of the opposite genital grouping. True before sex education and the Internet guys didnt know what we had or how to…

But why give up a good thing. Toys alone or with a partner are great. Intercourse is so hit/miss in terms of me climaxing and putting performance stress on my partner to get me off is not nice. I have a great time masturbaring with my toys, a great time being masturbated and oralled by my partner and love the…

There is truth here in that getting used to really focussed, direct and powerful clit stimulation leaves you lrss likely to get off from haphazard stimulation through straight intercourse. However i climaxed maybe once in twenty copulations with my partner long before i became a toy addict but now climax whenever I…

Ask your lover for one for sure but not your mum and dad. I did get a hitachi for a birthday from my parents a few years back but im sure ut came from Walmart and that they believed it was to help with muscle aches when i was training to do a marathon.

Its a trueism that we all like different things (sex toys, cars, partners, tv shows etc) so yes some poor girls wont get the Womanizer but look at revies on retailer sites and yhe positives outnumber the negatives 20 to 1

Hey if you can do microscopic suck and blow actions at 50 times a second you could save some lucky girl $200 on a toy.

Noise... it makes a put put sound on low that when the toy is in use is maybe like a neighbour a coule if houses away mowing their lawn with your windows closed (not bad at all) Up the power scale the pitch increases rather than the loudness. It isnt silent for sure but it isnt that whining high pitched sound that…

I got the black and leopard pattern one as i thought it the nearest to sexy (i have black and leopard print undies that guys like) but the shape, tacky crystal, strange white beak etc means it just looks silly. I came to the conclusing that the manufacturer gets the shape and the motorbike sound it makes means it…

Dont think of it being $200 for the toy but rather think of it as a few cents per exquisite, deeper, quicker, more resinant and multiple orgasm. What price do you put on that?