I respect her honesty and agree women should tell their own stories. I would not like my own daughter, however, to make her living as a metaphorical oxpecker.

Nice to meet you, Mr. Part of the Problem.

I promised my teenaged daughter last night that if he is reelected in 2020, we will apply for Canadian citizenship. Hubby’s been ready to go for a few months now. I just can’t anymore.

If I do nothing else as the mother of a daughter, I hope I teach her never to allow herself to be used and humiliated by men like this because of their money and so-called success.

Let the man go to his kids and live in peace. I’m old enough to remember the original legal fiasco and even agree he probably did it. Regardless, the man was found innocent and has finished his time from whatever this second thing really was. It’s like we’ve been watching him die of a thousand paper cuts. Enough.

Some Jew. He ate cake and likely had sex on the holiest day of the year!

Yes, this! My personal favorite is, “How much did she cost?” My heart and soul and it was worth both!

Adoptive mom here to say Kap’s actual mother, Teresa, does support him.

The original ODB.

I’m hoping all women will get on board and agree dating this tool (either of them) is a losing proposition.

Oh, yeah? Well, why doesn’t she go back to her rock in Bikini Bottom?

Thank you! My memory sucks - I bought this book almost 30 years ago. (When I was a toddler, apparently. /s)

Not sure I buy the idea that it’s a strictly Christian allegory, but this was good.

Sounds almost as draining and thankless as real motherhood.

Amazing collection of essays on this topic: All the Women are White, All the Men are Black, but Some of Us are Brave.

Re: office job w/hangover - you can also “go to a meeting” and nap in a remote corner of a high floor in your parking garage.

Came here to see what kind of award this woman will be getting.

True story: I was behind a car in a drive-through that had a thug like this driving the car and the tag read: SKSBNU. Throw the book at her.

Fantastic advice to the first letter. Perfect.

100%agree. She should be mercenary about this. Have the baby, get her shit together, start saving money, make a plan, and when she’s ready, walk.