I am the exact same! Sometimes I just feel like staying in but I know in the long run I need to get out. I’ve fallen into a nice pattern in which I work during the week and stay in, and go out with friends on the weekend. My job is pretty social and I like my coworkers so that helps.

That sounds more like solitude, not loneliness. Everyone likes solitude. Loneliness would be if you had no partners, no friends, no family...no one to really talk to or hang out with. I am single and live alone, and my whole life is solitude...but I also have a pretty good network of friends in my town, a family…

Meh, it probably depends. I’m a high school teacher and I’ve worked at two high schools so far, and I made some really deep and treasured friendships at my first place of work. Some of the women there helped each other through dark hours, I made a few friends that I spent time with outside of work, and I still keep in…

I think other women certainly notice. I didn’t start wearing makeup until my later 20s and before then, women would mention it every now and then and it was something I never even thought of. I never even noticed it on other people. But it also kind of surprised me how quickly women noticed.

The show has certainly not aged well. I missed the boat. I’m 25 and firmly came of age in third wave/post wave feminism. I started to watch SATC from the first episode this past summer and I actually just couldn’t keep watching it. I find it SO offensive and sexist! Every single episode fails the Bechdel test and the…

I bought pumpkin spice and apple cinnamon candles at Target, am restarting Gilmore Girls (since its always fall in Stars Hollow) and shopping Loft’s online sale for fall and winter clothes - 50% everything and free shipping!!!!!! I love October more than anything. Halloween, fall, favorite shows starting up again, and…

Yep, teacher here, and I don’t own heels at all. Granted, I’m tall (5'9") so that is part of it, but I wear flats every single day. DSW has some very nice, professional flats with cushioning in them and they’re very comfortable.

Hi...are you me?! I have a reliable car, a nice apartment, a cat that I adore, a smart TV that I also adore, and great friends. I’m quite enjoying the single life. I really try to enjoy it as long as I can. And I absolutely love having my entire bed to myself.

EXACTLY. Whenever I read things like this or hear expressions such as the cow one, I always just tune out because, like, it doesn’t apply to me? I’ve never dated a guy who felt that way about women and I never will. If you’re chasing dudes that think that way, or you as a dude think that way, YOU are the problem. You…

I agree. I am in my 20s and doing alright - I live alone in an urban area, have no debt, pay all my bills and am able to save money, with a stable job. Its pretty hard finding a guy around my age that even just has a stable career. Its not that I want material things, but I would like a partner thats also living an…

One time my uncle posted a status that said “I think calling somebody a racist is far more offensive than anything Trump has said.”

Agreed, I think that is what she meant.

The way I read the quote, I interpreted it as Dunham also kind of thinking her friends were being silly for being “triggered.” I don’t know I read it as kind of tongue in cheek, I don’t think she actually means legitimately triggered. But who knows. *throws up hands*

I never really thought she would become this (2017 Gwen).

You know what, I agree with you. I’m tired of the internet witch hunts.

This is so weird, today at lunch I literally thought to myself, for no reason, “I would love to go home and watch Sabrina the Teenage Witch right now.”

My mom works at a university (and has been working there for a few decades now) and she says the main issue with greek life is that it doesn’t even really give that many professional opportunities because its very insular. Like, their community service will be something particular to greek life. Today, there are SO…

I feel like this can extend to SO many aspects of culture and life. I’m a white American but grew up in Miami so everyone I knew was Hispanic. I never tried to act like I was a Latina. I always just acted like myself and I never ever struggled making friends or being accepted by anyone. I agree - just being real takes…

I’m happy that I’m...not alone? I was in high school during the early aughts and it was a pretty awesome time especially for the music I listened to. I’m NOT old at all and yet I have felt nostalgia for the aughts. You’re right, the passage of time is interesting and nostalgia sure is powerful.

That song has followed me through multiple relationships/crushes/hookups. I think her music is phenomenal.