I just have to laugh at the thought of how different her defenders would be reacting right now had she left a woman for a man under the same circumstances. You people have no capacity for self-examination, do you? What a bunch of hypocrites.

Threesomes are a lot like contouring, I think. They probably look great on screen, and really unnatural and clumsy at home.

Yes - I have told my husband that we either have threesome where both people are paying attention to me all the time or a foursome where at least one person is paying attention to me all the time.

I have trouble guest starring because I’m too sensitive to emotional currents and it’s a rare couple that aren’t communicating over and past you without some bad stuff and that’s weird.

OMG yes there’s another bi assumption, that any bi person is always up for a threesome. ER NOT NECESSARILY...

Yeah. I discovered two things: 1. I don’t multitask well in this situation; and 2. I really don’t like having sex with women.

And it all depends on the kind of kink you’re into. I am into BDSM relationships. I want someone to spank my ass and pull my hair and all that jazz. But I am a single partner type of girl. I do not want threesomes, I’m not even a little interested. But I think people just assume that if you’re into some kinds of kink,…

Exactly. If you are the object of affection is hella fun, if you’re the worker bee its a bit awkward and tiresome.

for what it’s worth, I found that if 2 of the 3 are in a relationship, someone will get their feelings hurt. same thing if 1 of the 3 is crushing on another of the 3. better if all 3 are single/not otherwise dating/(crushing on) each other.

I’m with you and Amber. I am probably the last person on Earth that I thought would ever have one, and I somehow I was with a girl I briefly dated and her friend. It was awkward, I felt like the odd man out at times, and not like what the 19 year old me ever imagined. I can see how people have fun with them, just not…

I totally agree (re: center of attention).

I had one once. I got off because I’m a do it yourself gal when the situation is found to be lacking—and it really was meh. It didn’t help that the couple revealed themselves to be kind of creeps. Rich republicans who liked to play with pretty liberal hippie girls. Ugh.

I think sometimes kinky sex can be easier with an ex, no pressure all around, ya know?

Mel Gibson. He’s a horrible, but his career was destroyed for doing far less than Nate Parker.

You’re picking and choosing your examples though. It was an open secret for years that Bill Cosby was a serial rapist. And for years it didn’t hurt his career at all. Michael Jackson was a pedophile, and he’s beloved. Let’s not even bring up all of the examples from sports (Jameis Winston, Greg Hardy, Mike Tyson, Kobe…

Not. Being. Said. Enough.

Also, Roman Polanski. Actually convicted, still feted, defended, and avoiding extradition.

I am just loving the poetic irony of all this.

It is the right thing to do. She’s dead and he’s never paid a price for the rape and destruction of so much of her.

And yet Woody Allen’s next big movie is in theaters now. I wish the white rapists would experience the same backlash.