I have to be real about this. The romanticization of rape is fucked up to me, especially in these sorts of novels that open with rape and sexual assault and twistedly blossom into relationships and “love”. I don’t understand why people feel like their sexual desires and kinks are or should be somehow divorced from…

how is that even shade that was totally direct...

I’m feeling Nicki’s Moschino swimsuit. The video is cute and summery too though.

Sorry I’m replying to this really late! Chubby people are uncommon but not rare in Iceland. I’ve been taking Icelandic lessons from various tutors, all Icelandic living in Iceland, for about five years, and none have commented on my size (I’m about size 16/18). I asked your question to my current tutor, and he said…

It’s ok! I had the opposite experience until recently, always dating women, never dating a man. Now I’m in a long term relationship with a man, and I have to be honest - it’s not really much different at all from dating women in my experience. You’re not missing out on much most likely. (:

Sleep, read cheesy manga, eat a lot of carbs/a big salad/both.

Hi! I work as a cook, so my friends ask me this question a lot. I know you said that you are looking for books, but if you’re able to, check out this website! It’s called Budget Bytes. It’s super handy; I use it for ideas for a lot of home meals. Best of luck to you!

That was cute/funny, so I’m optimistic! Although to be honest, I’m also kinda sick of sausages/dicks being equating with men.

yesss missy

Honestly, without pictures of confident, happy fat women online that I found all over Tumblr and other blogs, I don’t know how I would have made it through high school. Despite being always athletic and eating a balanced, vegetarian diet, I’ve been fat my whole life, likely in part due to genetics and in part due to…

Yesss I’m gonna buy everything.

Mark Z. Danielewski’s new book is coming out on the 12th! I’ve got it pre-ordered, really can’t wait. Other than that, I’ve been re-reading a lot of Foucault.

If you’re on a budget, try the plus size swimwear section of Forever 21+! Lots of variety, although sadly no low-waisted options.

I guess it puts me off because most of the self-described “gentlemen” I know tend to fit the “nice guy” stereotype. But this probably isn’t true for all! However, I saw it mentioned in another comment, so I feel like it’s not an uncommon association.

I would try to clean up all the grammar and spelling errors like “watchjing”, “damm” and “.I am”. Additionally, I think that it’s more charming if you don’t start with a list of political descriptors, as well as not coming off as too cocky/conceited (so maybe editing out things like “a complete gentleman” which sounds…

I love wearing makeup, but I always need my friends to do it for me, since because of my various medical conditions, my hands shake a lot. :(

1/1/1 sounds reasonable to me! 2/2/2, to be honest, doesn’t sound like very much romantic/alone time (maybe it’s different if you’ve decided to have kids?).

I don’t think it’d be really my place as a cis person to be giving that kind of formal 101 about trans experiences, but maybe I’ll see if a trans buddy is up to it! <3

No problem! I might actually repost this resource list as its own comment next week, since it seems to be a popular topic in recent weeks.

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