Ahhhhh! I got it now. Body builder muscles are usually too much for me. Something about knowing a quick squeeze could choke me out (and even just from a tight hug) is too much for me.

It sounds like you're a good person and friend and that's what makes for good allies I would think. I just know how it feels to be brown in a sea of white (I lived in TX and AZ), so there is this feeling of being alone, even amongst friends. So knowing someone is there for you and with you matters

Majority groups rely on being somewhat invisible in social discussion in order to retain their power. It’s why we think of women when we discuss gender and black and brown people when we discuss race.

That is tough, but it sounds like you said the right thing. I’m sure she just wanted to hear that you would voice support for her and stand with her if something were to happen. In conservative places, outright violence may not *always* happen but there is often that veiled racism that comes out in people’s attitudes…

Thank you, this is adorable and the little kitten meows are heartachingly cute! I love that they used the kittens natural talents, and had the ones who like to run do those scenes and the chill ones do the lounging scenes. I need this movie in my life right now, I hope it's out on DVD soon

You mean this??

Don't do it!

Me too! Tamron seems genuinely nice and open - the things Natalie appears to be trying to present. And not convincingly. I love when it's Tamron and Willie on holidays and whatnot. They seem to actually enjoy each others presence

Wait, what???!!!!! That’s incredible, like the little cat circus thing at the State Fair!!!!!! I'm imagining some 45 yr old guy with his 10 cats, doing bullet time stunts with the cats in harnesses and pulleys ala the Matrix!!!!!! And the Keanu connections deepen...

YES, oh my fuckin god!!!! Are you me? Am I you?? All I can ever manage is to kinda go sideways in the dream. Horrifying. Scary dreams are the worst, but kind of actually thrilling? Does that make any sense? They’re awful, but more interesting than regular boring dreams.

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I love that sentiment and completely agree. I may be paying my loans forever, but it will forever remind me of all of the work I did for myself and by myself. My education is the most worthwhile thing I’ve ever done.

It’s ledges, man! Not heights, but ledges!!

!!!! I had to stifle my cackling because I seriously thought you just listed random letters, but nope!!! Perfect point is perfectly made

Damn, this is what got me too. But somehow this thread is now a shit show of 90s gossip, and I’m kinda loving it? What is wrong with me

LOL, my ex was named Justin and your comment just made my day

YUUUUUP! Even Millennials still have poor parents. My plan is the REPAYE program when I get out of law school so I can get some of my debt forgiven because I’ll be paying the rest of my life.

This makes me want to see the movie EVEN MORE. Thank you for the perfect description

HAHahaaa!!!!! And Keanu Reeves actually voices the Cat, right? Stupidly, I somehow have not seen this movie yet :(

“P.S. Pokemon is free, dumbass”