You're very welcome. Enjoy.

ladies, ladies, ladies —- take charge of your orgasm, SHEESH!!!! It's 2013, wtf do you mean, never coming during intercourse, at all, or sometimes "he can't make you come?" Seriously???? It's up to YOU. Communicate. Whether its the first time or the 40th, tell him what he needs to do to get you off. If you have no…

there is a roadmap! www.dodsonandross.com Betty Dodson is a sex educator and activist who teaches women how to achieve orgasm and learn about their bodies...I love her site.

Let me just say: YOU are responsible for your orgasm, not whatever clueless dude (and they all are clueless to some extent) you're bangin' at the moment. If you've never had an orgasm (can you masturbate to orgasm?) then let me point you to the patron saint of the female orgasm: Betty Dodson. She specializes in…

Ok, let me posit a theory to all the list-shamers and skeevers here, whom I think are being super-judgmental and closed-minded.

resolved and accomplished in 2012:

Omg, fabulous!

um, no. This is a fallacy put forth to dishearten older women. It's difficult when you're over forty but no woman of any age should put up with crap because the dating pool is challenging.

I would get out. The sooner the better. He is miserable for whatever reason and is taking it out on you. Tell him couples counseling or you are out, Period. Get loans for school, go on public assistance, whatever, but get out of that situation.

ooh thank you, gotta try that!

You are not being a bitch, you're being a grown-up and doing what's best for your family. Moms can get territorial and needy sometimes, and change doesn't go over well sometimes. Stick to your guns (gently but firmly) and if she gets too ornery, say it in the best interest of the grandchildren to be in one place…

It would be nice if you mentioned the documentary MissRepresentation which makes all the points you make in this piece and features the symbolic annihilation quote you seem to have lifted from it....

CNN election coverage is SO stupid and irresponsible. Calling states where polls haven't even closed yet is so irresponsible. As for the liberal thing, that's simple: they have no idea what the word means.

It's too early to assume anything. Polls haven't closed on the West Coast and counting hasn't ended on the east. "Projections" are not actuality. Keep hope alive!!!

It's too early for declarations of who has won key states. Polls have not closed, counting won't be finished for hours, possibly days. "projected wins" are not actual wins. Mis-information is already circulating. No matter what you hear, VOTE.

yeah I found out about that last night. I'm not really that into astrology (except for reading my horoscope in the daily paper), but thanks to my expert cousin, I know what Mercury in retrograde means...sigh

yeah, Satan's baby is less frightening than a right-wing controlled America, I can see that. I'll probably tune in.

Happy Birthday!

I don't need alcohol to yell at the tv, lol

It's about race. Period.