It doesn’t apply in your friends case but I did want to lift up the fact that a significant percentage of unintended pregnancies occur to couples where birth control was used....even 99% efficacy means a certain percentage of individuals will end up pregnant.

If there’s only a limited amount of sympathy you have to give to rape and battery victims then at least shut the entire fuck up about it and don’t spread that bullshit around. Keep your trash feelings to yourself then 

THANK YOU. It’s old and boring at this point. We get it, you don’t dip your toe in anything that doesn’t concern you and want to let people know it. We get it.

Don’t you think that this sentiment is belittling to others who follow pop culture and hip hop/rap culture? There tends to be a crowd here that seems to be proud to not know certain things because they’re “old” but honestly it just seems ignorant. If you were interested in understanding parts of the article you…

At this point I would vote for a Satan/Ice Speculum ticket if it had a D next to it.

That movie is about adult women who enjoy sex. It literally has nothing to do with the rape of young girls.

I’m so in love with this image I’m going to tattoo it on my person.

Which she would know if she had more than one! As I always say: “It’s not a one-night stand, it’s an audition and buddy, you didn’t get a call-back.”

The implied causation presented with those statistics makes me want to gouge my eyeballs out. Maybe her failed committed relationships taught her valuable life lessons that contributed to the success of her marriage. Maybe her abortion allowed her to finish college and achieve her dreams.

It sounds like Average Anna has a pretty good time until she gets married and has kids.  That was obviously her mistake.

Matthew 5:6, “When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get...oh shit, you’re not even reading this part anymore, are you?  You went back Leviticus to obsess…

Trying to do that in a society that increasingly vilifies & assumes that all men are born predatory bullies . . .

What is a “good man?” Who assumes there are no “good men” out there? Not any of these commenters. Not the ad. I don’t disagree with your assertion that toxic masculinity shames men into suppressing their emotions which can contribute to more toxic masculinity. Or that toxic masculinity is enforced by both men and…

Whipping his dick out was bad enough, but he also actively tried to ruin the careers of those women and anyone who tried to report on it as well. People don’t talk about that enough. Like so much fucking hand-wringing over a guy’s “ruined reputation” and literally nothing about the reps of all the women he crushed…

Does this count as social media? We are technically subjected to the same behavioral signals that produce a dopamine rush by interacting with this site. We still share opinions and have identities, just anonymous ones. 

Yup. I accept people’s kinks but I also have eyes and can’t help but notice how often they resemble regular ass, everyday vanilla misogyny.

There’s nothing kinky about abusing women, it’s fucking standard in our culture. Wake up, turn on news, look outside, live your life as a woman and it’s fucking abuse of women everywhere you look, nothing kinky about that. 

Exactly. I’m not really about “cancellation” culture and I see Hollywood’s hypocritical double standards toward Black celebrities, but I need something more thoughtful than “sorry, I’ll be more sensitive”when his jokes addressed a real problem that impacts our entire community. The typical fauxpology feels like a huge…

Unfortunately it looks like he’s getting the face he deserves. I say that as someone who revered him as a kid, and still admire all of his indie work (including doing a student film because the guy just had the gall to call and ask!), but he is a dick and a wife beater and not a nice person.

Exactly where I am about his “apology” tour.