Yea I tend to go with “if its between 10-10 and I can’t hear it inside it’s fine”. Sometimes their son likes to work out in their backyard in the summer and he plays his music for about 30 mins or so and we can hear it in the house. It’s not a huge deal, but it can be a little grating if we’ve had a particularly…

Even the driving around with your music cranked up. When we lived in our apartment we had a neighbor who had a ridiculous sub and we could hear it all the way on the top floor of our apartment building because it would make the windows rattle. it was SO unnecessary 

Except in my case and most of the cases mentioned in the article for parking we aren’t talking about public space. The gravel space in front of my house IS my property, and it’s the same situation for all of our neighbors. While in our neighborhood we tend to share it we also will ask a neighbor to move their car if…

I had moments in the game that were very like “am I into this?”

Feels like an obvious one but playing your music super loud

erh re parking - like in our neighborhood we all have space to park in front of our homes (like that 5 feet of gravel) and its pretty annoying when my neighbor parks his giant truck in front of my house and doesn’t leave room for my car. I dont need all that space all the time, but if I have people coming over I will…

I think about this ALL THE TIME

Yea I actually think that is the worst part about all of this...

Agreed. 

While we are responsible for managing our own trauma, part of that means doing the work so that you aren’t perpetuating a cycle of trauma, particularly with your children. Affleck alone is responsible for his decision to stay in a situation that he was unhappy in. Not his kids. Not his wife. That was his choice.

I think they were saying that the next Black Panther wouldn’t be a recast T’Challa. Which makes sense because Black Panther isn’t one person. Before it was T’Challa it was his father. It’s a mantle that can be passed on 

oh no no no no no no

Is it the leaning over and smelling or just someone telling you “you smell good”

Anybody who’s dropping him now is doing so because they already knew he was capable of everything he’s been accused of.

Yea I just dont buy Branagh as Poirot. 

I think that is one of many points that can be made here. As well as this is a huge fucking waste of what are already limited state resources for families that actually need support.

OMG people really don’t seem to get that you can say this shit to a therapist in order to find a helpful and healthy way to say these kind of things to the people you have hurt (or publicly in some cases) if you have to.

His kids are not adults though. They are kids. And he isn’t telling them. He is telling the general public on Howard Stern.

I feel like being the child of an addict gives you some insight on how hard that is sometimes and let me tell you “I stayed because of my kids and that was making me unhappy so I drank” is not intended to put the blame on your kids, but it will absolutely have that impact. 

I understand what Ben is trying to say. I dont agree with his phrasing. I absolutely hate this “‘I can’t leave because of my kids, but I’m not happy, what do I do?” because as a kid who sees a parent/parents who are in pain or unhappy it is really easy to interpret that as “it’s my fault”.