Hi Luchita! Consider changing your saddle instead of changing your clothes. I use a noseless saddle that I purchased for the purpose of reducing numbness, and it has the added benefit of nearly eliminating this issue. The one that I have been using now for 2+ years is the Moon Saddle. This can be purchased online, and…

If you don't mind rocking the "baboon-butt" look....full seat dressage breeches! Though they'd be too warm for summer riding. Unless you can figure out a way to convert them to shorts.

Anyone who can solve this problem deserves a Nobel Prize. You aren't alone.

hey alissa, anecdotally, a new bike shop recently opened here in Chicago, and they cater specifically to women. i remember reading in the press materials for the opening that around 20%-30% of the products offered by most bike shops are women-specific. the shop is called BFF bikes.

Welp. I'm still gonna see it. The teaser clip is super intriguing. Detroit porn? Love it. Comparisons to Argento and Refn? Awesome. Christina Hendricks? Yes, please. The whole thing sounds like a weird and wonderful nightmare. And, you know... Ryan Gosling can sit on my face.

Hey Guy. It's okay. So your movie isn't great. That's all right. I've got a bottle of wine. We can sit on the couch and cuddle and watch The Notebook and talk abt how the industry just doesn't understand you and how you're not just some pretty face. It's okay, Ryan. Love, your Hey Girl.

Even if there are less than 15 workers, I'd double-check state-based equivalents by contacting the state's "opposite number"/equivalent to EEOC. Also doesn't hurt to contact a local employment law attorney who has a specialty in disability discrimination, just for the heck of it.

I'm really sorry you're struggling. I also have anxiety and depression, and it has interfered with my work attitude too. When in the worst of it, it's really, really hard for me to see how my attitude impacts other people. I'm working on the issues, but I had to do a big turnaround about my attitude because it was…

I had a position with the exact same issue! Every time I asked specific questions about output, and the quality of my work, there were no complaints. I was in fact told that I exceeded all expectations. But there was admonished so many times about my terrible attitude because of the same reasons you mentioned. …

you mean "flair," but the other one would be good, too

So my last job working in IT at a school district I figured out within a few months that my supervisor was a sociopath. I wanted to quit but then I had a fiscal setback and then I COULDN'T quit my job. Anyways, over time my boss tried to have me do several OSHA violations. I politely refused and said it wasn't safe to…

Maybe you should do this before walking into every meeting, including your evaluation:

good luck friend.

6 employees is definitely tough, though. sounds like you're the redheaded step child they want to give back. :(

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It's a wonder you're able to do your work well in that atmosphere. Finding another might not be easy, but this doesn't sound like a particularly healthy place for you to be working.

Oh my god I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

I was nearly fired from my last job because of the "attitude" my boss perceived me to have. He literally said "I don't care if you're good at your job, I DON'T LIKE YOU" to me. He said a variety of other things, including him not thinking my sense of humor is funny or that the correct amount of "effort" is put into my…

Sounds like you need more flare!

Not ALL women fight tho, pls clear that up