@iambu: I was flashed twice by the same guy on the same train line in Chicago. Well, less flashed more perved... both times he had an obvious boner in tight pants that he was rubbing while looking at me. Both times it was evening, when I was coming home from work, and the train was sparsely populated. I moved to a…

No one who has ever set foot in a Wegman's could possibly begrudge Alec Baldwin these ads. Heck, I would do an ad for Wegman's in a heartbeat. For free! It is truly that great.

@cassandraj: And he clearly really loves his wife of a million years, who he met in a performance of Romeo and Juliet! And he was in Children of Men, the best movie of all times. And he's gorgeous. Of course.

@cassandraj: CLIVE OWEN. for real son.

over the last couple of years i've gotten really into cycling. in good weather, i bike around a 100 miles a week. and you know what? the more i bike, the farther i can go, and the faster i can go, but it doesn't change what I weigh (or at least how my clothes fit - i don't own a scale) at all. people seem baffled that…

@sportz.star: When I was in elementary school (during the like a virgin era) kids used to ask each other whether or not they were virgin. I remember stressing out thinking that answering yes or no was really bad, but I couldn't remember which was which.

@ruthieoo: I definitely hear what you're saying about the gender binary being problematic, and recognizing that there are many people who live outside of it, for a number of reasons. My comment is more for people who choose to roundly endorse the gender binary, often much more strictly than cisgendered people. In my…

This was an issue at my college, where a couple of players on the women's rugby team transitioned, and some of the team members felt that if they weren't going to identify as women anymore, they shouldn't be playing women's sports. There was definitely a lot wrapped up in the conflict (queer women feeling abandoned as…

DKE are notorious for this kind of thing, at least where I went to school. A bunch of DKE pledges screamed faggot at me and then broke my window during their pledge activities. Needless to say there was no action taken by the frat or the university.

@katieupsidedown: Umbrella Academy is FANTASTIC although I feel super emo recommending it to people. I've read the first two books of the Unwritten and it's def growing on me.

@Anilisha: Seriously friend, there was a time that Mark Millar was good, although his recent run with Nemesis is making me doubt my love of his earlier work. But his work on the Authority was great, and Red Son was fantastic.

Where is the love for Batwoman!!?? Amazing art and writing and a queer woman super hero? I read most anything grant morrison puts out, and he's generally good for queer characters (beast came out during his run in the x-men, although that got dropped when he left the series). BPRD has some great women in it, and has…

on the show last night, they claimed that all rape kits in nyc were immediately tested and the results were forwarded to the DA and the police. That can't possibly be true, can it?

I love love love this video, although they totally stole this idea from me! Which is probably ok because I came up with it 10 years ago and then never did anything about it.

i get hit on/harassed all the time on my bike, which generally involves a) wearing a t shirt and knee length shorts, b) being sweaty as hell and c) wearing a helmet. I am rarely less hot.

i prefer to ask if folks are all right from a safe distance, and leave when they wave me off. it's happened to me when i'm crying before, and it's embarrassing, but i would rather ask than not.

The weirdest thing about this is that the outfits are a million times more "sexy" than the outfits in the original single ladies video. If they had just been wearing black leotards, I don't think anyone would have been talking about anything other than what amazing dancers these kids are.

What's up with all the POC on Lost sacrificing themselves to save the white folks. It's some serious magical negro shit going on there.

i love how awkward she looks in all of these pictures !!heart!!

@hovy: Batwoman has been AWESOME recently! Besides having a queer, hot, and asskicking lead, they had a story on don't ask don't tell AND some of the best artwork in any books out there right now. It's a must read for me. The sad part of all of this is that I didn't start reading Y the Last Man until really late in…