Thank you! All these “you’re doing it to yourself” and “you’re too indulgent” and “you do too many things with your kid” comments are kind of grossing me out. The mommy wars suck and are one of the most unpleasant things about parenting.

Can we stop with the whole “ur doin it to urself” thing please? Sure, there are probably upwards of several hundred couples in Manhattan who are both employed, with young children, who have attempted to craft a Halloween costume out of mason jars and pallets, but that really isn’t life for most of us (admittedly…