My $.02 - Patriarchy isn’t a “theory”. Most parents actually don’t teach the “boys don’t cry” nonsense.
And the “showing emotion is a weakness” is somenthing men tell each other. They themselevs don’t want it to change. To change that would mean they actually agree that “feminine” qualities are also good, which would…

Yes, many straight men (if not most, even more when it comes to the American ones) do believe women shouldn’t have the choice to say no. Women are sub-humans/inferior in their eyes, so how could they try to “limit men’s choices” by being able to also choose, right?