I'm in the UK & a 34F. We have a much better range of bras over here & it's worth spending the money on a few good ones. The best bra EVER EVER is the Deco by Freya. Seriously, it'll change your life!

Oops sorry, correction - abortion is legal in NI but only before 9 weeks. In the rest of the UK it's 24 weeks.

Abortion is legal in Great Britain, but *not* in Northern Ireland. NI is the exception in the UK.

Yep. I'm a competitive powerlifter, plus-size and just so damned unhealthy. I was at a competition this weekend, and the largest mens' groups were the 93kg and the 105kg. So unhealthy. But hey, they don't need to wear clothes or anything - definitely not *nice* clothes!

The Queen one is precious. Yes, rejoin the UK! You too can enjoy our NHS, our civil unions for same-sex couples (soon - we hope - to be marriages), our secular government, our access to abortion, our FREE BIRTH CONTROL (on the NHS) our tax system and our TV licences.

The graphic is inaccurate - Northern Ireland, while part of the UK, bans abortion for the same reasons as the Republic of Ireland.

I'm not ashamed to say that I, um, humblebrag about volunteering. I volunteer at Crisis At Christmas (a charity for single homeless people) every year (this year will be my 5th) and yep, I let people know I'm doing it. I tell people because 1) it's brilliantly rewarding; and 2) I think more people should do it and 3)…

That reminds me of those Stephen King or Ray Bradbury tales, when normality is just a little bit... off. Like there's something lurking in another dimension, really close by. Creepy!!

This is a pretty mild one, but it still creeps me out.

Colin Salmon! All the way.

Idris is great, but Colin Salmon should have been Bond. SWOONS.

Kelly Brook doesn't have any more cleavage on show than Berenice Marlohe, IMHO! I think both look amazing.

No, it's not the weight loss most of us are responding to, it's the comment that you will never get back your pre-baby body. You may weigh the same as you did pre-baby (or even less), but your body will not be the same one, due to things like ligament changes etc.

So what did you do about the inches you gained in your hips due to your pelvis expanding? You know, when the hormone relaxin made your ligaments softer, so they baby could pass through, and which means your hips will never be the same size?

It doesn't make it right, but I suspect she was going for this look: http://www.catsthatlooklikehitler.com/

I was about to say "Surely it's because of Bonfire Night!" but then I remembered that you guys don't do that one.

Although cheating can happen in poly. Honesty is still paramount!

From the poly people I know, and from my limited experience of trying it myself, most poly relationships don't work on the idea of "you can just screw whoever you want". There's usually an element of transparency. Of course, others may do it differently - there's a kind of poly called "don't ask don't tell" but it's…

Not to mention that cheating CAN happen in a poly relationship anyhow. It's not necessarily a magic bullet.