It is truly ridiculous. My BiL is a 6'-3" broad-shouldered NFL linebacker build with mutton chops and a goatee. He favors Brooklyn lumberjack style clothing. I have no idea whether he has had any surgery because, frankly, it is none of my damn business. Either way, going into the women’s bathroom is not going to make…

I think I’m right about it too—and it’s an uncomfortable position, it’s a really tenuous line to walk. But when you consider the way a majority of rapes occur—especially among young people—where situations go from consensual to non-consensual, where people are not explicit, where things are ambiguous for both parties,…

A perfect example, ladies and gentlemen, of why “yes means yes” has to be taught alongside “no means no.” Poor woman ):

And it’s true that it often manifests in a ‘who do they think they are’ attitude, which is completely abrasive and doesn’t foster the whole ‘we’re all black behind the ears’ attitude. But it tends to be from a ‘who do they think they are, don’t they know that they’re black to any other white person? do they think…

I like your comment, particularly the first paragraph.

Here’s all you need to know from my favorite moment of the Southern Charm season 3 premiere episode:

I very much agree.

FALSE! I truly think Southern Charm is one of the best shows on Bravo, and the premier of this season took it to another level.

I think we’ve all come to realize that some people really, really, really want to be offended. Constantly.

We all need to choose our battles wisely. Faux outrage over every tiny perceived slight does cause people to blow off your cause. This gets problematic when the truly important stuff needs addressed.

Also feel the need to add:

This could have been a real catastrophe if not for the dogged purr-suit of the police

He seemed happy to be shepherded off the huge span(iel) of the highway.

I bet he thought he was in deep shih tzu when he saw the lights flashing.

It’s weird to revisit this time period as an adult. All the despised, vilified women of the period are speaking out: Marcia Clark, Monica Lewinsky, Anita Hill. I feel like my childhood had an unreliable narrator.

I was at a weird age when the OJ trial happened. Aware of what was happening, but didn’t understand media bias, racial implications, any of that political stuff. It really has been interesting to revisit it with adult eyes. I have such an appreciation for Marcia Clark now.

Wow that was really bizarre to watch... like some sort of weird alternate universe fantasy-land prom! I have a hard time believing teenagers of any time period could ever be that... uh... courteous? (Also, how could all of the kids possibly greet each chaperone? Wouldn’t that take all night? And good lord if I were…

“I want my wedding look to be a nod to my cultural heritage, which is white Christian woman...” with the most clueless smile in the world. Made me laugh. so. hard.

We had a Down Syndrome scare with my son who is now six weeks old, waiting for the results of that testing and questioning whether we should have the baby, one we wanted desperately after a prior miscarriage, was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through in my entire life. Fuck anyone who tries to politicize that.…

Jesus Christ, Superstar is great. My dad is an atheist Jew and he loves that film. I especially appreciate how the movie seems to have the aesthetic of “we put a bunch of hippies on a plane to Israel, then when we got there we realized we forgot half the props and costumes, but luckily the Village People had just…