I'm so sorry. That is so rough, and so unfair. Please seek out any help you need.

OKC guys are like that, in my experience. That's why I don't date guys from OKC. You either get that or guys that just want to bone, which is a good deal if you just want to bone but not a good deal if you're looking for some meat on the bone.

We've obviously had pretty different experiences traveling, since we were pick-pocketed once and had a second brazen attempt at pick-pocketing that we managed to avoid. Been a target of scamming multiple times. Tourists/newcomers are always a target in every country and culture, so one of the best things you can do…

I laugh during sex all the time. The boyfriend didn't like this at first - it made him feel insecure, like maybe I was laughing at him. I had to explain that I was laughing because I think sex is ridiculous, but also because I was having fun, and that having sex with him was a lot of fun. Now he doesn't mind and can…

I think that you're on a good path just because you recognized this pattern. At the same time, it's not your fault that your boyfriends were emotionally abusive - society tends to send us messages like this, that women who are abused have low self-esteem, ect., ect., and that can be true BECAUSE they were abused and…

This is awesome. I can't wait. I'm glad Laverne Cox is getting so many opportunities. She deserves it.

My blood pressure is rising a bit at all the people who are so judgmental. She looks great. Yes, her face was fine before. But she only has one life and she likes her face better now.

I'm thinking along the same lines as you here. It's impossible to know without actually attending these classes but I'm wondering if they're getting dudes in the door with the sales pitch of threesomes and awesome head and then selling consent to them while they're in the seats. Like those annoying commercials where…

I've worked with people with disabilities in the past and I currently volunteer in that capacity. I think there are multiple reasons, and I've only personally identified a few.

I would think that more communicative sex where women are not shamed for participating and enjoying themselves would be a 1000x better than old-fashioned sex where women just lay there and let the man do his thing. But what do I know? (Probably not that much, being a woman and all. )

Good point. The masses need to know. Especially they need to know that ours is a special love unlike any of the million other couples out there at this exact moment. I will emphasize this point by posting every time my boyfriend proves he is the best boyfriend by giving me a back massage...clearly he is the first…

Selfishly, I like this mainly because I never talk about my relationship on Facebook. Like ever. Because I don't feel like there's too much to talk about? There's nothing revelatory about our relationship that Facebook needs to know and for the most part our relationship feels intimate and personal between the two of…

If this is real, then...wow. I'm all for positive sex education but to do this without any warning to a second grade classroom? And what if these were penis-shaped cookies? I'd be pretty uncomfortable with that. Body positivity and early sex education is all well and good but practice common sense too.

Thank you so much! It's a big help. :)

I am studying for my physiology class and I'm starting to get angry. Our professor keeps insisting that we're just covering the most basic information but I highly, highly doubt that. I think he is one of those professors who knows his topic so well that his scale is really off. It is an overwhelming amount of…

Probably hard to shake societal conditioning that weddings are the MOST important day of a woman's life. *cue eye roll* I hope you have a great time tomorrow. How do you usually relax when you're feeling anxious? Treat yourself well tonight.

I will fault you for it, but considering you've been accusing me of hating women, I think you will survive the insult. I'm really tired of people assuming that there is no middle ground in Internet discourse - every time I have a thought that leans some way, or even suggests leaning in a certain direction, people…

No, if you look at my post, I talk very specifically about the idea of whether he was scared for legit reasons. I at no point say I agree wholesale with his post. The words 'I agree with you' don't even actually appear, but even if they did, I think the reasonable thing would be to assume that I agree with the part…

WHOA slow down there with the assumptions! I never mentioned gold-digging myself, and I said that we don't know the full story - I have no clue who the bad guy is here! I brought up a potential possibility that exists with a lot of other possibilities! Or did you completely miss the part where I said it's also…

That was my first thought as well. If this were a woman doing this, I might wonder if she was afraid of the guy for some reason. Being dead would be a great way to avoid his wrath. Similarly, while it's not as common, there are men who have been murdered because they dared to reject their girlfriend. It's possible…