SIDS is much more likely when cosleeping occurs with parents who drink and smoke (for different reasons - drinking makes you less aware of baby and second hand smoke causes breathing difficulties in babies). I know a couple of heavy smokers who lost TWO kids to SIDS.

Encouraging at least two of her daughters to pose naked was pushing it too far for me. She can hardly provide unbiased moral guidance when she's pocketing 10%.

It is not hard to lose the weight if you only gain an average amount in pregnancy and breastfeed. I did lose mine in 10 days without an ounce of exercise, twice. It's the toning and airbrushed flat tummies that are unrealistic.