He’s been instrumental in spreading misogyny. I remember when I was in high school (15+ yrs ago) & there was a BET town hall/summit thingy between rappers, some educators, other cultural influencers about the effects of their music on women & rape culture. Nelly was there and got hella defensive when called out on Tip…

You’d think these famous dudes would just move on to the next one when a woman doesn’t want to sleep with them (or doesn’t clearly indicate that she wants to) since there are so many who’ll probably be willing. But if even regular men feel insulted enough by rejection to commit rape, it must be much worse with men who…

 What? You mean the way Black women have been stifled by society and told their curls were ugly and barbaric in order to force them to try to achieve straight hair is not the same as someone losing a bet and getting “dreads” without any context to tradition or history or anything besides that they look cool. That’s…

I have a lot of respect for you, so hear me when I say, you are wrong.

What’s next, getting on Black women for relaxing their hair?

Lies.

My friend basically never washed her hair. She used dry shampoo, but that’s it. And even then it took forever for her to get one or two locks.

Cream of wheat is for sugar, grits is supposed to be savory.

I was thinking about his civil rights activism. To me, it seems that it all worked to serve men. He fought for sexual freedom (for men to freely enjoy women), he fought for women to get the pill (so that pregnancies wouldn’t hinder men’s sexual activities with women and men wouldn’t have to worry about being…

I can’t speak to a super micro penis, but I’ve been with dudes ranging from really big (eight inch camp) to small-average (four inch camp... maybe one 3.5 incher). In my personal experience, the guys with smaller dicks were noticeably better at sex. Not just better at going down on me, etc, but better at the actual…

Your SIL is the kind of person I wish I had when I was younger to advocate for me when I was too young to find the words. 

Please give your SIL a high five for me and tell her random internet people support her standing up for her daughter. We’re so conditioned as women to not make a scene when men are inappropriate but that is exactly what needs to happen so they can respect damn boundaries. Seriously, she rocks.

Speaking as a person who is also afraid that an emergency call won’t reach me: on either Android or iPhone, you can put the setting to Priority Only/DND but specify certain numbers that should ring no matter what. I have my boyfriend, father, mother, sister etc as priority numbers and so I can put my phone on silent…

Not if they can do it right. And it’s not a medical thing.

Length is such a weird myth. Everyone wants a super long cock, but if you don’t know how to wield a super long cock, it is no fun for the person you are having sex with.

Holy shit I’ve been using iMessage for years on my phone and had no idea about the DND thing. Thank you!

My SIL publicly yelled at my FIL to stop demanding hugs and kisses from her daughter and FIL nearly collapsed in shock. (He doesn’t touch my kid that way because my kid is a boy and male bodies are respected but female bodies are public property.)

FIL just sputtered, “oh? OH? THAT’S BAD? Well, maybe I will never kiss…

LW3: On the iPhone at least, you can put a single convo on Do Not Disturb. Learning this changed my life. I almost never had my phone on sound (until I got my Wonder Woman theme ringtone), but it vibrates with every message and even in regular hours group texts stress me out, all that buzzing while I’m trying to do…

It is so, so hard to have a family member that does this.... thing. Its hard to name it. You don’t think its sexual and making a big deal out of it makes other people realize that its a big deal TO YOU. You wanna just laugh it all off and be cool and you’re stuck in this no man’s land between trying to be a strong…

Just want to second that that persons grandpa is a creep and you should literally scream and yell at him and possibly punch him if he tries anything again or never see him again. It’s only a matter of time he get’s creepy with your children and why do you want to teach your children it’s ok for an older man to have…