I had a rotten year and jezebel was there for me. Lurked for a decade but finally started posting. Having people who were kind to me meant so much. Had some issues that echoed yours and feel fortunate to have come out the other side . It’s tough to have perspective when you are in the middle of it. Big hug. Hang in…

I think it’s the sunshine and outdoor air that help along with the moving. This time of year is double rough as the days are so short and freeze your arse off cold.

I am 100% clear and very lucky. Two weeks after surgery I felt normal. I didn’t realize how abnormal I was for most of the year until then. It fucked with my mind horribly. I had started seeing a therapist to try and deal with it all and was given anti- anxiety meds. I put off starting them til after surgery but so…

Right back at you :)

Hugs and condolences.

Hugs

Meaty by samantha Irby. Can’t recommend it enough.

Congratulations!

Bug hug, condolences on your dad. It’s really lovely that you can spend the time now with your mom (even with the frustration :)

I’m so sorry, hugs.

Big hug, fuck 2016.

I think a lot of is generational and will change in the next decade. More traditional professions like law will take longer to get on board but creative solutions have more leeway.

Adorable! Can you imagine if you encountered an adult chewing their foot? Babies get away with everything!

That is so pretty!

Hugs and fingers crossed for you.

Meh it all until 2017 when you go nuclear. Enjoy some boozy holidays :) hugs!

Are you up to a short walk outside? If not, what about something that can distract you bit? I spent a lot of time watching bobs burgers this year. It didn’t require tons of attention, made me laugh and was strangely comforting. Eating some food when you can will give your body and mind some fuel.Big hug. I hope you…

Big hug, I hope the surgery works out as that pain must be excruciating. Take care and best wishes.

Maybe grab some safety glasses and something old and whack the shit out of it until it’s broken into pieces? That burning hot rage needs a target. It can explode when you don’t want it too. Take care and hugs.

Hugs and best wishes on your upcoming wedding. The hard part is even if you tell them you don’t want to talk about it...they will .....and then discuss how you don’t want to talk aboutit. office gossip blows.