Big hug

Second the spa day idea. I did a sad birthday dessert for one a while ago but found it to be a bummer. The spa gets you chatting get with people and touch is super therapeutic (if you like massage). Instead of thinking about the passage of time I have found it helpful to plan for something - a trip or class I might…

I wish you the best, this has to be such a difficult time for you. When things are difficult for me I try not to think too far ahead but just to what I can deal with - whether it’s the next week, day or hour. You’ll get through this. Big hug.

I just started watching Bob’s Burgers and now can only read your posts in Tina’s voice.

The fact that you have been doing this day in day out for months is amazing. Looking after family can really burn a person out. I too hope you can get some vacation in after their move. You need some time to recuperate.

The lips take martini from angry to ...slightly annoyed flirt? That loooks like it’s healing really well! Take care and let us know how the results go.

I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like it has been a difficult time for your family. How long was your dad ill? Two years ago I helped to organize my mom’s service but it was religious so I could cheat with templates. Here’s a site that has some pdfs (outline of service snd eulogy tips) to help, just scroll down…

Woot! Did you just stay the one night? How many stitches did you get? How long was the surgery? Good riddance to Tyrone and glad you are doing well.

Internet hug.

Ahaha I read that last part to the tune of Fergie’s my hump, my hump, my lovely little lumps.

Sooooooo fluffffyyyyyy! All I would want is a cat, they are the best. Sorry dog people but I take great joy in having a cat dole out affection to me on a whim then ignoring me.

I’m glad to see I’m not the only one with wierd neck only pictures on my phone. :) mine is growing sideways but moves up and down when I swallow (apparently a good thing). Am getting pain when swallowing and lots of hoarseness plus no energy at all. Doc has put me in the mystery category for now due to benign biopsy.…

That kitty is adorable! I have never heard of a rag doll cat, are they all so fluffy? What kind of personality do they have? Omg I want a cat but my allergies won’t let me so I have to live vicariously through others. Post more pics!

Best of luck with the surgery. Fingers crossed it’s just a big Ole lump. I am currently growing one myself and debating whether to harvest. Function fine and biopsy negative so they are reluctant to remove. But am just under the 4cam mark and lately feel like I’ve been hit with a truck. Did your blood tests or biopsy…