i think you are right and smart about pretty much everything and your reasoning is sound and i appreciate the response and almost want to concede, but the fury with which i hate the topsheet tangling up in the night will bolster my dissent

I am a women who doesnt use a top sheet! fuck top sheets. Something the author of that GQ article didnt mention is that they make your toes claustrophobic. My toes must be free!

Meh, I’m a lady and I hate top sheets. I also only wash my sheets about every two weeks or so too. Am I supposed to be doing it more often?

I had horrible post partum depression. Going back to work gave me sanity and allowed me to actually enjoy the time I got with my daughter. I find it harmful to tell women how they should feel about the time they spend with their children. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to go back to work earlier than…

Eh. Keep that time. All they do those first weeks is cry and digest. The whole household is tense hoping for a decent nap. Or throwing random guesses as to why he/she is crying after the checklist of food, diaper, attention is vetted.

I feel like maybe there’s something not in your comment, because from where I’m sitting, there’s a really big difference between spending fifteen years spying on guests having sex in one’s own hotel than accidentally catching nature lovers getting down in the bushes. Intent, for one. Scope, for two. Delusions of…

After the Ryan Adams bullshit, I have decided I am not listening to any more male covers of 1989. If a woman wants to cover her shit, fine, but these dudes trying to act like they’re improving upon her shit or legitimizing it (acid trip or no) can go to hell. I will take my Taylor straight up, no ice, and make it a…

Up until about a month ago, I thought Father John Misty was a plausibly pretentious hipster band name invented for Master of None.

Man, one thing that's ALWAYS interesting is hearing the revelations people have when they're high.

the baroque beat

As a parent, there is literally nothing more bullshit than the “you’re not a parent, you can’t know [INSERT HERE].” My blood pressure spikes the instant that those words are uttered/written.

Also when are we going to address that he is the victim of a crime himself. Look at the picture, someone stole his mouth!

Clearly that black girl is unable to stand on her own two feet without the stabilization provided by white feminists?

Usually I scoff at the notion of overzealous “PC culture” (blech, I don’t even like typing it) running out of control....

I think you really have to want it to be offended by this one.

So now men can’t even rape when they’ve spent the time and money to get advanced degrees and become professors?

Nice save.

Dang it, this was gonna be an Adequate Man post, but I decided not to sit on it over the weekend. Gotta get these laundry takes out while they’re hot.

Sometimes only a few minutes after it was on the way in.

I too used to use elemeno, but I found this great program. through prayer and making amends I have been able to get clean, got my 3 month chip and just got a job as a prep cook. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.