Tell your friend to tell Margot Robbie that we all think she’s beautiful and healthy and those people are horrible assholes, and that of course she doesn’t need to lose an ounce. :)

thats sucks, she is not fat at all. she is fit.

The Waldorf-Astoria has money. Their loser gun-toting guest may not. That’s my take on the order and relative importance of the lawsuits.

I thought for sure his wife would be knocked up in this last scene. The fact that she wasn’t pretty much ruins the entire film for me.

Yes. MrChicklet asked me to watch “Grand Budapest Hotel” with him. It’s like watching a music box for two hours. Pretty to start, but it goes from pretty to monotonous to grating very quickly. Everyone and everything is so precious and twee and actor-y.

... and now that I am taller and fitter than most everyone I know I take great pleasure in taunting short people.

I take great pleasure in taunting short people.

There are two ways of looking at rape/sexual assualt. One is to ask whether the “victim” wanted to have sex. The other is to ask whether the “perpetrator” reasonably believed the “victim” wanted to have sex—that is, whether the “victim” gave consent. The former looks at what was in the “victim’s” head; the latter…

Honestly I’d like to know your partners level of intoxication. If he knowingly took a person back to his room who did not have the ability to make rational decisions to have sex... yeah I find that troubling. If he was just as or more drunk than you than neither of you making rational decisions that night.

If you wanted to have sex with him and then got drunk and left with him with the intention of having sex then it’s not rape. That being said, unless the guy knew you wanted to have sex with him before reaching that level of drunkeness then it is possible that he doesn’t care about consent much.

That guy did the wrong thing as you couldn’t have consented however you are of course allowed to feel how you want and luckily in this case you were happy to sleep with him anyway.

It’s kind of like if you said to your friend “I’ll give you back that £20” and then she went through your purse and took it herself. She…

I think technically speaking you were no longer able to give consent. But how you feel about it is more important I think. I’ve def gotten down when I was too drunk to really consent, but I’m not concerned about what happened. The bigger issue with a girl who’s too drunk is if she never intended to have sex and then…

For me, it comes down to whether you were okay with what was happening as it happened.

Strictly speaking, yeah, that was rape. Whether or not you’re a “rape victim” is a little more complicated though, and really up to you. I know I’d be a little uncomfortable if something like that happened to me (partially just because the guy didn’t have the decency not to have sex with me when I was clearly too…

Sometimes it really is what you want to make of it.

This is just my personal perspective, but if you had the intent to have sex with him before you got blackout drunk and your intent never changed then I don’t really think you were raped.
It’s a grey area, and I’m sure some people will disagree with me, since extremely intoxicated people can’t consent and all that jazz.…

Jezebel book club pls

A very wise baby.

its wrong to degrade her with the snarky term ‘newly minted feminist’ when it seems that her whole family is pro-femme and has most likely, grown up with these ideals...

I would love it if posts like this included information like how to donate or get involved. This type of thing is awesome and I would love to help.