Actually, I’m good friends with a good friend of M.R.’s, and yes, this story is sadly very true. They put intense pressure on her to slim down for “Focus” - i’m not even going to get into the details - and now they are not happy that she is returning to a more normal, healthy body weight. It’s really depressing. But…

Um, why the hate on short people? What did we ever do to you!

1. There is no option to have sex with both.

Funny. I went to college with his brother.

Thank you for saying that. I don’t want to diminish anyone else’s experience, but beyond occasionally popping in my head when consent questions come up, it hasn’t impacted me at all.

Honestly, I’m inclined to agree with you. I know legally I couldn’t have consented. But I think for me, personally that I went in there with that intent and never regretted should be what matters for me.

This is actually a serious question. When I was a freshman in college, circa the late 90’s I had one too many tequila shots (read: about 8 too many) in my room. I left with a guy I had been flirting with to go back to his room, with the intent to have sex. And we did.

Not to be a stickler but I believe that is Adrienne C. Moore, the actress who plays Black Cindy.

LISTEN TO ME. We are virtually the same. I had multiple versions of this conversation over the last year with my fiance, and I was thrilled to take the reins until I needed his help.

Honestly, if a couple wants to do this to celebrate their love, and actually has the time: Great. But pay for it yourself.

My bachelorette party is in less than a month and I only gave 3 rules:

I think you just wrote my birth plan. (You know, after I get pregnant and all that jazz.)

I'm so torn. As a woman I totally support the message in Willow Smith's tweet. But as a woman old enough to be her Mom I feel like, why isn't there a parent or authority figure (besides the general public) monitoring this girl's social media?

Ha I'm glad i'm not the only one who had that instinct. But something about this would fall into the category of fan mail, and that's a crazy train I'm not ready to board yet (ever).

Privileged? Check. Controlling? Check. Type A personality? Check.

Actually, the reveal of Snuffleupagus was to teach children that if they told the truth to adults, adults would believe them.

Ditto, getting married in 4 months: no wedding party. It really just seems like a way to add drama, expense, work, and hurting people's feelings. I'll pass on all of that thanks!

"...marriage is basically figuring out how much weird you can love in another person."

"Hearts don't break gently: they always shatter."

Is it wrong that after seeing Blackfish we nicknamed our Black and White dog Tillikum?