I had no idea! Thank you for posting this enlightening article.

And always so very white?

Kelela is so talented. I think she comes across more confident because she’s in her 30s and not a 20-something ingenue. She’s lived a little and it shows.

She makes me tired.

Grieving is already a painful process, something that changes you forever. It’s difficult enough to work through, and I can’t even begin to imagine how much worse it is when you have to process it in public. And one of your (completely understandable) coping methods is using drugs and alcohol. And you're trying to…

This is incredibly sad. Goodness, this is an awful situation to be in. This has to be like living in a nightmare.

True facts.

Any place in particular you would recommend?

Damn. This...really makes me not want to live there now. I was just there in January to visit some family but this all sounds very discouraging. :( However, being in Chicago is kind of the pits. Hmm.

I’m in a similar situation now. Used to live in D.C., moved back home to Chicago, and then I realized...I don’t really like it here. I was thinking of moving to L.A. for the mild weather and cheap (well, when compared to the east coast) rent. If you don’t mind, what don’t you like about L.A.? You wouldn’t recommend…

Ugh! I feel for you, teenagers are the worst.

Uh....was anyone else kind of weirded out that he was 31 and she was 18 when they first started seeing each other? I know, I know, 18 means you’re officially an adult but a man in his 30s dating a teenager is just weird to me, especially now that I am in my 30s. The thought of dating an 18 year old is like, laughable.…

Well said. This whole mess gives me the creeps.

Double Oop!

Oop!

Had to let you know how much I love your username!

Haha! The boot camp episodes. I remember those. Remember in the 90s when boot camp was the solution to everything?

Eh, debatable.

Oh my GOD, this video is so creepy.