I’m somewhere between Mary Poppins and the Nutty Professor, kinda depends on whether it’s social drinking or at home chill drinking. I never really have to worry about what I might find the next day, although I’m in the habit of convincing myself that something needs to be put in a safer place while drunk, then…

These Christians who think they’re entitled to pass these laws because they’re oppressed for being religious really need to walk a week in a practicing Muslim or Jewish person’s shoes. Wanna know how many jobs I lost out on because the employer “couldn’t work with me not being there Saturday mornings”, but always took…

You might have had a case against her, some cities have nonprofit firms that will suss out discriminatory practices.

It sounds like you were in a situation where anyone would go nuts and have an emotional time, you feel like you’ve failed. You both do. I think you two are gonna be just fine.

My cat is a mean little special needs fucker, although we’re improving on that front. The issue is mainly that he’s easily overstimulated, so even brushing is so enjoyable and intense he kind of loses it and bites. If a partner can learn to read this cat and know when it’s time to stop petting, or get up and leave if…

I did, I only noticed it too late.

Seriously, they’re all silence and business on the outside during the day, then get the vodka or beer flowing and they’ll party and hump in the woods the entire weekend. Such a beautiful existence :*) Low STI rates too since people actually carry condoms, ffs.

Lived in Finland for 4 years. Just because it’s open doesn’t mean people talk about it, especially the Finns — I dated around, and when I brought the phenomenon up to a few, they seemed surprised that other people were doing it too. It may have been that I was a foreign woman so people just wanting a date or a fling…

People are freer to leave now. In the Nordic countries, open relationships are quite common, and a big reason is because it maintains emotional infidelity for a lot of couples. There are two different kinds of relationships: marriage and mistress, and neither is shameful or “wrong”. People in the states see marriage…

While Wolfinger doesn’t know why this is the case, he suspects it might have something to do with self-selection. In other words, people who wait so long to get married maybe aren’t suited to marriage, or they’ve married someone else who isn’t suited.

That is a fuckton of xanax.

Around here it seems like if you’re white, female, and middle class or over, you can find a doc to rx them if you shop around. It’s good to get names from friends.

Spending time in St. Petersburg was all it took for me to never want a cig — seeing what unfiltered cigs do to skin was very eye opening. I’m entirely too vain to start now; I want to hold onto my looks as well as my lungs, and I don’t spend stupid amounts of money on Rembrandt shit just to yellow my teeth back up. I…

I’m moving to tobacco country soon and EVERYONE there smokes, AND IT’S SO WEIRD. Where I am now it’s like, either really old people or white trash who have grown up around smoke anyway. But young, healthy, especially educated people here don’t touch cigs, but it seems like the ones within a 60 mile radius of the old…

it looks like an old photo.

Fuck off.

That’s basically where I stand — I don’t advocate for the death penalty, but there are some cases so horrendous that I also can’t be actively against it. Prison, especially solitary confinement, is more cruel for a lot of people. But our gov’t uses it to make an example out of people, and that’s not cool because it…

That she’s a beard?

They absolutely are, Liberty is considered a pretty good school. Not all who attend are religious nutjobs; a lot of people get scholarships and figure it’s worth the trade off.

I live within an hour or so of Liberty and it is WEIRD. The kids I know there are mostly on athletic scholarships, but the rules are so fucking invasive I don’t know if I’d want a tradeoff. Their law school tried to court me and I was just HAHAHAHAHAHANOPE.