I’m a Virginian and we get a lot of attention and pandering too, since we recently went blue. It’s a weird feeling. Like being that shy dorky girl who goes to the dance and takes off her glasses and she’s beautiful and everyone wants to dance with her

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Ugh, I wanted to like this SNAP stunt by Gwenyth because it at least got people talking. Dammit.

I'm Beyond Allen. Beyond Allen doesn't really believe in marriage unless it's arranged consensually for political alliances, but does believe in big parties with guinea pigs.

..........please tell me what a Baby Fair is.

I mean, guys want a girl they can have fun with, but then when it comes time to settle down into starting a family anyone with sense is going to choose their wholesome, ready-to-be-a-mom friend over someone who still prefers to smoke and drink and go out. But choosing someone serious, responsible, who can stick to…

huh, that’s interesting. I think my doctor thought that’s what this was back innnn....2007 when the worst adulthood incident started, it lasted like 3-4 months. She put me on protonix and it sorta helped, but I don’t know how much was the medicine and how much was the dietary rules (no acidic foods after 7 pm, only…

are we the same person

I keep a few of my more absurd friends on my feed for exactly this reason. Sometimes I need a little shade with my coffee to start the day right.

It depends a lot on the cut, which changes between a few different 'models'. I can only wear the seamless, thick strapped racerback type thing. What I've seen lately are like, bandeau bras with spaghetti straps or lots of molding. But hey, whatever works for you, I just think they're worth checking out.

It depends a lot on the cut, which changes between a few different 'models'. I can only wear the seamless, thick…

Yeah, it's essentially just very stretchy fabric, hence why some cuts work and some don't (for me). I only need underwires for my "real" bras, wearing them all the time would feel like a hair shirt to me. I like the squishyness, cause it doesn't jiggle or pull, but I don't feel like I'm in boob armor, either. But…

Yeah, it's essentially just very stretchy fabric, hence why some cuts work and some don't (for me). I only need…

....I like Target's sports bras. Not the padded or underwired ones, the most basic ones on the shelf just made of elastic-y fabric in a bazillion colors that go from XS-XXL. Unfortunately, I can only wear a specific cut of it that doesn't come out every year, but when I do see the seamless variety on that display…

....I like Target's sports bras. Not the padded or underwired ones, the most basic ones on the shelf just made of…

I was a member of PETA for years. I was told that I deserved to get sick and die because I gave up my vegan diet on doctor’s orders. That was pretty much the last straw — I do tend to prefer the company of animals to that of most humans, but I’m not gonna go tell someone to die or be in pain or be sick just because…

One of my close friends has fibro and has the opposite problem. She’s tried pretty much everything, all the antidepressants that *might* work and such, and either they did nothing or the side effects were worse than the pain. She’s terrified that it’s not working because there’s something in her mind that won’t let…

As a fellow stress puker who has tried FUCKING EVERYTHING, including way more valium than I should have been taking to quell the debilitating stomach pains, there’s only so much we can control. You can take tranquilizers, you can smoke weed, you can avoid certain foods and sip ginger water, you’re still gonna get the…

He sounds like he thought it would be further punishment. Eating vegetarian shouldn’t be a punishment!

Could be. There has to be something mental going on, and I’m not just talking a chemical imbalance that can be treated with meds. Maybe for him they’d help, since it can really affect you when you make such massive changes, but wires getting crossed seems like a good phrase for whatever she’s up to. Wanting to go back…

Well, what would be driving that get-up-and-go-far-away is pretty much sheer self-interest, so I also wouldn't want to be at the same table and risk being the one whose food got spat in or overspiced. But sometimes it's all you can do to just sit and watch an unbelievable situation unfold. I've had that happen in…

when it's someone in your party, especially a group like that, it's a lot harder to actually handle it versus just overtipping like hell on your share and writing a bunch of "I'm sorry"s on the check. because you're right, she would have just gone into hulk mode. I can be a master of passive aggression though, and one…

I'm pretty scary. Not like, teardrop tattoos scary, but it would take a true idiot to instigate something with me in public. I rarely call out behavior like that but when I do, I haven't had people do much more than crawl off with their tail between their legs. Some breeder carting around a bunch of kids is no match…